<p>I definitely don’t and do not objectify any females. I was raised mostly by a woman so being good natured is in my socialization. I understand the need to resocialize a girl from a different background as me, and I definitely felt an inflated ego when I realized that she had to like me more than other guys if she’s taking a chance dating me when it’s frowned upon. My whole issue is, you can’t have your cake and eat it too. (I never understood that figure of speech. Why would someone want cake they can’t eat?) </p>
<p>If she wants to date me and make me part of some social reform, she needs to keep me in the loop about it. And if she doesn’t agree with what her club thinks about culture, why associate with them? And I’ve been in college enough, to understand clubs and organizations. At the end of the day, if you’re a part of something you don’t agree with, you’re a hypocrite. There’s no rationale to argue otherwise. My issue was that she made herself a part of everything they did. She agreed with them, she took their side and in the end, she was deceiving them. </p>
<p>As far as me and Asian girls… The thing is, when I was spending a lot of time with UCSD students even though I wasn’t a UCSD student, I couldn’t exactly be culturally biased when it came to who I dated. It’s like in Harold & Kumar, when the girl asks that pot dealer kid, “Have you seen an Asian guy running through here?” and he goes, “Yeah, but only when I open my eyes.” That’s how it is at UCSD. Everywhere I went, there were Asians. And because I don’t discriminate, I date any girl as long as she’s cute and we get along. It just so happened, all the cute girls I met at UCSD were Asian lol.</p>