Homework is highly overrated, at least in the US. There’s too much of it in high school without really adding much to learning. The founder of Khan Academy (Salman Khan) when interviewed a few years back said he found two things correlated with happier students, better outcomes - family dinner and sleep. And homework gets in the way of both, so he started his company based on that as a goal.
You can’t judge and not judge btw, you can’t say in the same post every situation is different so parents shouldn’t be judged because we don’t know what goes on inside each family (true), and then start judging other parents (bad).