<p>Maybe on a "I wouldn't mind plugging her" level, but black women tend to have multiple children and that "I don't need no man" attitude that is a real turn off. Black men even usually don't want to date them. Strangley enough you tend to see alot of Hispanic men dating black women.</p>
<p>i am white, 20 years old, and male. my last lover was black and we went out for 10 months. i am open to all races. chemistry is the most important thing!! dating a different culture is hard though, a lot of black guys would say rude stuff to us and confront me when i was with her like "is that your girl" when i didnt even know the guy. her family also made fun of me and called me pinky. my family on the other had was completely cool with her and liked her and never even made any reference to her skin color.</p>
<p>i also witnessed black males who had the attitude that because my ex was dating a white guy that she wasnt down for her race, and that she was forgetting her blackness, and that she was somehow betraying her blackness. i find that many black males stared/ confronted us and this gave me the impression that much of the black male population was somehow offended by a black girl choosing a white guy as if she was choosing me over them when she didnt even know them. i only received comments everytime i went out with her which at most was .00000000001% of the african american population or less so i can only speak for my impression of that .00000000001 percent that i encountered</p>
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what an ignorant and stupid comment on multiple levels. thats a huge generalization, an un-true one at that. most, if not all black girls i know aren't "one step from obese". and those brazilian women that you love so much, most of them are mestizos with black blood anyway...
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<p>Ignorant and stupid? How so? The ghetto boot-ayyy that is so revered in some circles is indeed too large for many people. Get over it. I don't even think you know what the words "ignorant" and "stupid" mean.</p>
<p>We pretty much have this sorted out. White men do like some Black women. Do all of them? No. But then again, have you liked all of the people of your race? It's more than just a matter or preference, it's also a matter of attitude. I am a Black female but I am mixed (Hispanic and Black) so I have been termed "light-skinned". (That makes me not light enough to be white but not dark enough to be black). I personally could care less, if I like you, I like you, I like you. I like all kinds, Asian, Black, Caucasian, Haitian, Iraqi, I don't have a favorite. I must say though, there are a lot of different races portrayed in the media and we must admit at one point, that this Asian/Malaysian/German actor was hot. </p>
<p>As for attitude, I think Black women are misrepresented in the media, and yes, I think everyone can agree on that. Sure, a select few have that "don't need a man" attitude, but a lot, as from what I witness in my neighborhood, have the "can't live without my man" persona as well. Like I mentioned before, I just don't care. And from my Caucasian ex-boyfriend, he didn't either.</p>
<p>no. </p>
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<p>The white guys who close off the idea of dating a black girl are the ones who won't even bother associating with them.</p>
<p>I found this... it makes a good read.</p>
<p>THE BLACK WOMEN</p>
<p>A white women's opinion of black women with a brother's response.</p>
<p>Please take a moment and read this. Thumbs up to this black man. Enjoy. It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men. I'm so glad she got what she asked for and more.</p>
<p>Dear Jamie:
I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your black male readers. I am a white female who is engaged to a black male - good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of black females attitudes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage.</p>
<p>Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by black men, willing to wine and dine with me and give me the world. If black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes.</p>
<p>I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us. Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montel Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes, etc.</p>
<p>I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us white women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, black men, let me know.</p>
<p>A Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA</p>
<p>RESPONSE</p>
<p>Dear Jamie:
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl. Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men. I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy.</p>
<p>The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.</p>
<p>Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our women will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman, someone we can control. I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful black men date white women. Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women. And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spotlight, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed. Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history!</p>
<p>It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery.</p>
<p>It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through all this, still they rise!</p>
<p>It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could never date anyone except my black queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors, and shades that I love them.</p>
<p>Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black women.</p>
<p>I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin?</p>
<p>Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the black woman has.</p>
<p>BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a virtuous woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and who understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill.</p>
<p>No offense taken, none given.</p>
<p>Signed, Black Royalty</p>
<p>ok. NOW this thread got racist.</p>
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a lot of black guys would say rude stuff to us and confront me when i was with her like "is that your girl" when i didnt even know the guy. her family also made fun of me and called me pinky. my family on the other had was completely cool with her and liked her and never even made any reference to her skin color.
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<p>That sort of adverse reaction happened to a friend of mine too. He's a white guy and he was very interested in this black girl. She liked him a lot too. The problem? Not HIS parents, but HER parents. They made a huge row over it when they found out about their budding relationship and actually "forbade" her to even talk to him. His parents didn't care about her race, but they were somewhat offended, obviously, by the reaction of her parents.</p>
<p>I think some white guys don't show their interest in black girls as much NOT because they don't find them attractive, but because they fear what sort of hostile reaction they might be susceptible to... from racist whites AND racist blacks. Of course, its not just the white guy who might have to deal with harsh reactions from some black guys, but also the black girl. She'll probably have to suffer comments from some other blacks for "going white."</p>
<p>I agree with hoke that the thread got racist when those letters were added. </p>
<p>I get approached by white guys. I'm not mean, loud, or argumentative so I guess that helps. I don't know how my being needy or materialistic helps though. (slight sarcasm)</p>
<p>^^^ Was that comment really necessary?</p>
<p>"hell no. the majority of black females look the same, smell bad, and are just ugly... note majority"</p>
<p>u need a reality check</p>
<p>that wasnt necessary at all..im black, but im not even gonna comment on that statement</p>
<p>coming from england, its very much equal! which is why i think this post pointless....</p>
<p>to be fair i aint picky! as long as i get some loving at the end of the night i dont care what race she is ;);)</p>
<p>I love black women</p>
<p>^woooo personally i like every type of skittle in the rainbow ;D!!!Thanks, for the comment ferst hehehe woo woo!</p>
<p>this is so dumb. every person has something special about them and you can make very few generalizations of significance based on race.</p>
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^^^ Was that comment really necessary?
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<p>No. Was this thread necessary? No. I was just commenting on a dumb thread with slight sarcasm because I was bored. :)</p>
<p>No, not your comment priceless28, I was questioning the guy who said, "all black women look the same, smell bad, and are just ugly". I guess they deleted his comment by the administrator or something.</p>
<p>im not white but good looking is good looking</p>
<p>I am a white male and i wouldn't mind going out with a black female.</p>