Do you have a core group of best friends?

<p>I don't, which sucks b/c i know a lot of people a little bit, but i don't have a core group of best friends. sometimes i feel it's too late to get one. i never feel i belong completely cause each group does their own things and activities and i'm usually not a good enough friend to be invited to the small things like hangout, study, lunch and the bigger things like trips, concerts, vacations, etc</p>

<p>Why can't you ask some people to come hang out or go to lunch with you? Friendship is a two way street.</p>

<p>Until you go out of your way for them, they won't go out of their way for you.</p>

<p>i used to, but then i was all like, screw that - these people are lame. so now i just have what you have.</p>

<p>Best friends and "groups" are two different things. Don't try to create friends, create real, solidified relationships. Once you genuinely trust and admire a couple of people (they don't have to know each other), the rest will follow. Groups never really work. It is always about the individual, and if you don't have a strong core...well, you're screwed.</p>

<p>Yes I do and its not hard to find them. My group didn't even form until this semester. But now it is awesome and we hang out basically all the time.</p>