<p>if the other school isn't calling her, i don't think she needs to tell them. if they do call, then she can tell them. as coaches continued to recruit my son, he did tell each of them that he applied ED to his first choice. as they continued to call, he told each of them that he had received his likely letter. i think they continue to call to keep in touch, but they all know what they are up against. i think that's only fair.</p>