<p>I think there is no obligation to tell unless asked directly. After all, the coach is doing the same thing on the other side-- is the coach telling you he likes your D but wants player X more?</p>
<p>My D's ED school did not work out. We had continued to communicate with ED2 coach (she was never asked about having applied ED1 but we noticed a major uptick in phonecalls about Dec 16th!) and she got in ED2.</p>