<p>It really is too bad that some people who are well off are envious of poor students. What's disheartening is that apparently some people have no clue what it means to be poor nor do those middle class and affluent students realize how lucky they themselves are.</p>
<p>To clarify one thing that I said that was misinterpreted: Poor kids typically go to substandard schools and have substandard teachers. As a result, poor kids do not have the academic achievements in terms of things like college board scores, critical thinking skills, and academic skills -- since no matter how smart a student is, if his/her teacher is bad, then the student is not going to reach their potential. I am not saying that poor students are stupid. I'm saying that due to inferior schooling, most don't have the opportunity to develop their academic skills the way that students do in excellent school systems.</p>
<p>What the majority of poor students experience in school is different than the situation for poor kids who are fortunate enough to go to excellent prep schools (through programs like ABC) or the middle and upper class students who go to very good public or private schools.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, in the U.S., the quality of one's public school depends on the incomes of people in the school district. Why? Public schools get a large part of their funding by property taxes. The more affluent districts are able to attract and pay better quality teachers. In addition, more affluent parents are much more involved in schools. They will complain and get rid of teachers who are incompetent. They also will do things to enrich instruction.</p>
<p>As an example, in an AP English class in a one school, the teacher was having the students do word seaches: those puzzles in which students circle words embedded in the puzzles. The parents found out about this, complained to the principal, and the teacher was eventually moved to the non AP program. The parents complained because they realized that their kids needed to be spending class time writing essays, analyzing literature and doing other things to improve their writing and critical thiinking skills.</p>
<p>This was in a magnet school, and most of the kids taking AP classes came from educated, middle class or wealthy homes. The teacher ended up teaching students in the nonmagnet part of the school, and many of those students were low income and from homes in which the parents hadn't graduated from college. As one can imagine, through no fault of their own, the kids are not likely to get stronger language skills who ended up with a teacher who thinks that word searches should be done in high school English classes.</p>
<p>The more affluent districts also have more AP and IB classes because they have more students who want and are capable of taknig those classes. The schools in the poorer districts have more remedial classes because they have high drop out rates and consequently have to focus on helping students simply graduate from college.</p>
<p>Back to the subject of financial aid: It is extremely important for poor students to realize that there are a very limited number of colleges that are extremely generous with financial aid for v poor students. Yale, Harvard, Bowdoin, Princeton are some of the few that give excellent aid packages to poor students and require either no or minimal loans.</p>
<p>Most students, however, whether they are rich or poor lack the grades, scores, and outstanding ECs (BTW, working a job -- particularly to help one's family -- does count as an EC, a strong EC at that. If one can't do formal ECs because of having to take care of younger siblings while one's parent works, your doing those household responsibilities also counts as a strong EC) that would allow them any chance of admission at the colleges that I mentioned, which are some of the most competitive in the country.</p>
<p>Even though, for example, about 90% of Harvard's 20,000+ applicants qualify for admission based on scores and grades, because of space, only about 1 in 10 applicants will be admitted. When it comes to the other schools that I mentioned, probably at least 80% of the applicants are rejected because of space.</p>
<p>Since most other colleges in the country will either provide very poor students with financial aid that has as much as $20,000 a year in loans (far too much to bear!) or the colleges willl provide a financial aid package (including loans, work study and grants) that meets as little as 75% of the students' need, poor students are at a great disadvantage when it comes to colllege admissions.</p>
<p>More affluent students may be able to more comfortably take on loans because they know that they can rely on their parents to help them do things like get a car, furniture, and move when they graduate from college and move to get a job. Poor students, however, may need to be providing financial assistance to their family during and after college.</p>
<p>Similarly, more affluent students may be able to fill financial aid gaps by having their parents take a second mortage or getting $ from their grandparents. Those aren't options for poor students.</p>
<p>Consequently, it is very important for poor students to make very sure that they are applying to some schools that are financial safeties. Probably for virtually all, these would be local public 4-year and 2-year colleges.
There is no shame in starting at a 2-year college. Many students, including bright and middle class students do that. Some do it because they aren't ready to leave home yet. Some do it because they get excellent merit aid. Some do it because they like the small, nurturing classes. Some do it to save money so as to be able to more easily afford a private education for the last 2 years of their college.</p>
<p>In my large state, either the gov or lieutenant gov. got his start at a community college, and then went on eventually to graduate from law school. There are many top business leaders as well as political leaders in my college city that did similar things. </p>
<p>While some students go to CCs because they are lazy and not too bright, there are many very bright, ambitious and capable students who go to CCs and then go on to stellar careers in a variety of professional fields.</p>
<p>For various reasons, I even had suggested CCs to my sons, who each had scores in the 98-99th percentile, and came from educated, middle class homes. One S was interested in music production, and the CC where he was then living had an excellent program in it. The other S wants small classes, and I think that a CC could be a good option for him. With a 2.8 or so average (due to being disorganized and a procrastinator) in a rigorous program, I think that the nurturing of a CC could be a benefit for him, something he couldn't get from a large state public university. I'm also not willing to pay lots of money to send him to a private college until he shows he has overcome his procrastination difficulties.</p>