<p>It depends on the school and you have to do your OWN research on that. Again, for the millionth time....you need to examine a list of schools (starting with about 20 or so...then narrow it down to the top 10-12, then apply to 8-10 tops) and see where you FIT the best: academically, socially, emotionally, culturally, economically, geographical factors including weather etc. Because in the end YOUR happiness and success are better served by FIT than by so called PRESTIGE! If you get into MIT and find out you are miserable (or any other elite school), then what have you gained?</p>
<p>Visit the schools you like and THINK you fit in. Talk to people: faculty, administrators and students. And just look around and see how many happy faces you see, what you examine in the library.....I can tell you my D took a few schools OFF of her list after visiting.....and seeing it was an obvious POOR fit for her. </p>
<p>One size ("Prestige") does not fit all.</p>
<p>What you should be aiming for is "where can I go where I will be super happy, super challenged without being overwhelmed and distressed, and hae a reasonable chance at being at the top of my game....graduating with honors or Phi Beta Kappa or whatever?" That may or may not be a top 20 school.</p>
<p>It may be in your backyard and it may be in another region of the country. It may be a school that has a high percentage of Asians or one with very few asians. Everyone is different and everyone has different needs. I know asians who have to be around other asians to be happy. I know other asians who couldnt care less and MOST of their friends are in fact NOT asians. I know kids who have to be around brilliant people 24/7. I know people who are better off and happier around well balanced kids who are bright and ambitious but not necessarily budding Nobel Laureates.</p>
<p>Some people prefer to be in a HUGE state school with incredible Division I sports. Some people prefer a very small and intimate private college where every professor knows your name and becomes as much a friend as your roomate. </p>
<p>One size does NOT fit all. But if you are a prestige seeker....you will be disappointed. And I hate to generalize, but a lot of asians (though not all) have this obsession with prestige. Perhaps its because in China (for example) getting a good job depends on the prestige of the institution you attend. I dunno. But its unhealthy. College is a HUGE part academics, but its also about meeting people and future business colleagues, growing up socially and emotionally, and diversity of backgrounds and opinions. NONE of that has ANYTHING to do with USNWR rankings and prestige.</p>
<p>I am not saying you cant obtain that at Harvard, Princeton, Yale, MIT, Stanford or the other Ivy or elite LAC's like Williams or Wellesley or Wesleyan. To the contrary, you will likely have a great experience at all those colleges. But it really matters more about fit than it does about pure prestige. </p>
<p>I know kids who went to U Delaware because their chemistry program is so superb. You see what I mean?</p>