does being rich help?

<p>"Girls are attracted to guys who have nice clothes over guys who have ugly clothes."</p>

<p>QFA</p>

<p>Those characteristics certainly do help with girls. You will get to choose any airhead you want...</p>

<p>^Dude I love azn's (check my name), just for some reason, girls don't. If you're getting some, please help your brothers out, cuz they're struggling by their own admission.
I'm not dissing you in anyway-in fact, I'm really glad to hear some asian dudes are making it in a very racist dating world.</p>

<p>Sry if I came off really defensive, but I just can't stand it when ppl stereotypes. I think the main problem with peopel not getting laid is their lack of self esteem, and that in turn destroys one's self confidence, which is the number one factor in getting laid.
When you are confident, you naturaly became interesting, funny, charming to the opposite sex, and just work your way into their heart (or pants) from then on.</p>

<p>I'm a girl and I certainly approve of men with money.</p>

<p>It's not even that I'm materialistic and would want presents all the time -- it's just that realistically, if I were to ever marry a person, it'd be most convenient to marry one with money...so I'd be looking out for moneyed people to date. Financial stability is one of the keys to happiness.</p>

<p>It only hurts if you're one of those guys who thinks constantly buying her things is the best way to show your affection.</p>

<p>Being rich always helps with women.</p>

<p>Does being rich help? Definitely, but if u want to have success with girls nothing replaces good looks (being tall, cute, and in shape), a great sense of humor and personality, and knowing how to play the game. Obviously girls want a guy that is successful as well. If you're going to a good college and/or have solid career goals, then money won't matter THAT much.</p>

<p>Girls don't like boys girls like cars and money.</p>

<p>money helps with girls but you dont want a girl that only wants you for that. wat is up with the asian self loathing here? the impression i get is that if your asian you cant get a girl. the main issue is your self confidence no one wants to be around someone who self pities themself. im asian and most of my past gf or random girls ive hooked up with have been white and a few asians in there. stop letting stereotypes or any of that **** get you to just be confident and outgoing and your bound to get a girl or some play for that matter. the only person that can help you improve with girls is you so you might as well learn</p>

<p>for most people yes, but not everyone</p>

<p>all depends on what kind of a person you are</p>

<p>i will guarantee you that</p>

<p>dude all women are gold diggers...if you got cashh money youre set</p>

<p>if only we all had cash :P</p>

<p>Why does the pejorative term "gold digger" even exist? How is chasing money any more or less base and materialistic than chasing looks?</p>

<p>are you good-looking?
being rich helps a lot but cannot gurantee anything unless some girls are desperate for material.</p>

<p>But seriously, if your under 5'6 you'll die alone. No amount of money will help you, unless you go to a poorer country.</p>

<p>Problem is, girls want looks and money. At most good colleges, they often correlate. There are lots of tall, classicaly handsome, wealthy guys in the states. Even average or ugly women increasingly delude themselves into believing a tall, rich, handsome guy is out there for them, and remain single, hoping that one of these guys will sweep her off her feet. </p>

<p>BTW, confidence and personality have almost nothing to do with getting girls. Personality is merely for sustaining the attraction. Trust me, I'm 22, been in the game for a while. If the physical attraction isn't there in the first couple minutes, it's a no go.</p>

<p>^^hahaha. this troll is hilarious.</p>

<p>lol wutang is hilarious</p>

<p>^I'm just stating the truth.</p>

<p>Girls have been socially conditioned to say that "it's what's on the inside that counts" while men are applauded for scoring with as many hot, airhead girls as possible. </p>

<p>Truth is, as equality between the sexes increases, women are becoming intune with their own desires, and thus much more demanding of the looks of a potential partner. In fact, most above average looking girls are much, much stricter about their physical requirements than guys. For example, I know a sorority where every one of the girls won't date guys under 6'1 or so. They are so insecure, that even if they don't mind a shorter guy, they don't want to have their friends know. Likewise, the guys have to have a car and be affluent. Obviously, they don't place any emphasis on personality, because it can't be seen, and thus can't be coveted by other girls.</p>

<p>Every girl who I have been with, showed a physical interest in me very quickly. You cannot convince a girl to think you're hot.</p>

<p>^^ riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight. i met wutang before. she's that girl with pen is envy</p>