<p>LOL Afaforce, I am a LADY =)</p>
<p>haha it's happened to me, too. ^^ people refer to me in third person as "he" and i'm like.. nooo! go gender neutral usernames!</p>
<p>lol it'd help if we could post gender but um ..I can see the future problems that could arise.</p>
<p>I have a great memory - it would probably shock most people to find out what I know about them, just from having seen some little tidbit of their lives. </p>
<p>The guy could be like that. My guess, though, is he's not... smart money is on either him liking you or stalking you.</p>
<p>there is no fundemental difference between liking and stalking. in fact stalking is an essential feature of courtship in certain cultures. i still remembered helping my very physically attractive brother stalking his girl (you would think a physically attractive guy doesn't have to resort to stalking eh?).</p>
<p>they ended up marrying each other.</p>
<p>wow...now i know what to do if i wanna marry a girl...</p>
<p>I have a feeling if i stalked my girlfriend she'd get kinda freaked out though</p>
<p>I am with you afaforce...I assumed tenisghs was a guy! LOL That is a pleasant surprise.</p>
<p>The last time someone stalked me in an attempt to get me to date him, I threatened to kill him. </p>
<p>Curiousity is fine. Scoping the person out so that you can stage "accidental" meetings is either very Junior High, very desperate, or very cute. Depends on how you pull it off. Generally, however, one should have the finesse to not reveal his stalker tendancies to the object of his affection.</p>
<p>yeah some1 thought i was a girl on here once....they really need to add sex in the profile...you could really disappoint an online mac when he finds out the person he's been flirting with is a 40 year old father of 9</p>
<p>^^^^^ Lmao</p>
<p>LMAO. :)</p>
<p>Not to be overly pragmatic, but you could probably add in details to your profile... such as "Southern girl" for location, to dissuade those who seek someone of a different gender.</p>
<p>as a girl, i have found 2 types of guys who show 'interest'</p>
<p>1) a nice pleasent guy who remembers alot of small details about you. (your situation).. Very sweet guy! So flattering!</p>
<p>2) a normallish - kind ofa nice guy who pretends he doesn't remeber anything about you at all when he actually knows everything. <-------- soooo annoying! They think it's magnet but it's such a putoff!
He tries to act too cool, so you think he's a guy who knows alot of girls, so you'd chase him.. or he asks these repetitve questions (and pretends to have forgotten the asnwers) to make a conversation.</p>