Does here have the heart to help me and read my situation

Transfer Students
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<p>My name is Christine. I will be a freshman this 2013-2014 year this Fall Quarter at UW Tacoma. I just graduated from high school this year in June. </p>

<p>Here's the thing: </p>

<p>During my senior year, I got admitted to UW Tacoma and I got rejected by UW Seattle 2 months after receiving my UW Tacoma acceptance letter. Once I got UW Tacoma's acceptance letter, I automatically accepted UW Tacoma and I got in. I got rejected my UW Seattle because I have a low SAT score of 1300....same goes Seattle University. Seattle University was supposed to be my dream school, but I got wait-listed by them and I told myself "You know what? Screw them. Just go to UW" And so I did, but instead of Seattle, it's Tacoma.</p>

<p>Now, I've got all of my classes and my housing set for Tacoma. However, right now I feel like I might be regretting. </p>

<p>The economy has been really bad and times have always been tough. Neither of my family graduated from high school. Neither of my family ever went to college, too. And now all the weight is on me. My family and I have always been struggling and being a low income family has put us a lot pressure in struggling to find jobs and making ends meet. </p>

<p>This made me decide to want to major in Business Accounting and Finance, to either become an accountant or a financial analyst. </p>

<p>The problem is this: both UW Tacoma and UW Seattle have their own business schools. I don't know which one to choose.
I just got accepted to UW Tacoma and I've got my classes and housing there set and ready. But should I regret? </p>

<p>Should I got for my Plan A:
Should I have gone to UW Seattle for their business school (Foster School of Business) instead? Should I attend UW Tacoma for freshman year only and transfer to UW Seattle afterwards? Or.. should I attend UW Tacoma for freshman and sophomore year and apply to UW Seattle's Foster School of Business? </p>

<p>Or..</p>

<p>Should I go for my Plan B:
Should I stay at UW Tacoma? Stay where I am at right now? Stick with what I have? Stay at UW Tacoma and attend there for 4 years and apply to their business school (Milgard School of Business)??</p>

<p>I know both of them are UW and the only difference I see is their different location and their recognition. I know Foster has been recognized as one of the best business schools, however, wouldn't Milgard be the same?? Wouldn't Milgrad be the same at all - since they are still a part of the UW community??</p>

<p>I don't understand. I'm just so naive about everything - the future, college, everything. </p>

<p>Suddenly I got struck by lightening. </p>

<p>Maybe I should stick with Plan B. Prove that Milgard can be as great of a business school as Foster and become a leader there at UW Tacoma. Maybe I should start small with leadership and come out big. </p>

<p>All my life I've lived in Seattle (ever since I was born in California and it's unfortunate of me not to grow up there instead, I know) and I grew up in Seattle and I'm just so sick of the city! No offense, but I just don't like it. The weather is unpredictable, the people are rude, there's so much hussle and bustle. Seattle is just isn't a calm area. </p>

<p>But Tacoma... Tacoma is different. It's so calm and peaceful and no one knows me and my family there. Everyone knows me and my family in Seattle but.. we all want to start over. We all want to move out because we're just so sick of living in this city!
So maybe Tacoma can be a place where we can all start over. </p>

<p>In Seattle, I'm just a nobody and everyone knows that I am nothing here. </p>

<p>But in Tacoma, no one knows me and maybe if I start over, I could finally be noticed and recognized and finally become a leader in the community. </p>

<p>And then, if I could get really high and good grades in all of my classes at UW Tacoma and at their school of business - I could apply for graduate school out of state. I could apply for (MBA) graduate school at California and hopefully get accepted because of my good reputation I've made for myself and for the community at Tacoma. </p>

<p>I just want to make that happen so badly. I just want to succeed. All my life, we've been poor and almost everyone I here in Seattle thinks I'll never make it in life - thinks that I'll never succeed. </p>

<p>It's always been a struggle for me to believe in myself, but I just don't know. </p>

<p>So if I start out in Tacoma, maybe I could succeed there. If I start small.. maybe better things will come and things will change for good. </p>

<p>The problem is that I don't want to regret the choices I have to make right now. I haven't decided yet of what plan to choose - either A or B. </p>

<p>I've been talking to a lot of people online and it seems like (other than talking to my college advisor) this is the last resort. </p>

<p>I need some opinions, some advice. I feel so stuck and so lost, but at the same time a part of me knows what I'm about to do. </p>

<p>I just feel so unsure.</p>

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<p><a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/transfer-students/1526920-why-isnt-anyone-helping-me-am-i-invisible.html[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/transfer-students/1526920-why-isnt-anyone-helping-me-am-i-invisible.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

<p>Ten identical threads…</p>

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<p>Stop with the repetitive threads. And please stop being overdramatic. It’s not that serious. Someone posted an answer to your thread once already and you didn’t respond. Why do you keep posting the same things over and over? And your thread titles are ridiculous please stop. It’s getting annoying.</p>

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<p>Do not put so much pressure upon yourself. Enjoy your freshman year. Once inside thinks will be a lot clearer. You will be able to talk to other students, professors counselors and many of your fears about school A versus school B may wash away. Most important thing is do well and take all the opportunities offered to your. You are doing the right thing. You are moving on with your life. Get good grades, get involved and you will see that doors will open up for you.</p>

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<p>Well, that is a long post lol.</p>

<p>You should do Freshman year first before figuring out if you want to transfer.</p>

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Well, I don’t to be ‘heartless’.

You should be doing ok at UW Tacoma or UW Seattle. See <a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/university-washington/734214-uw-tacoma-seattle-2.html[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/university-washington/734214-uw-tacoma-seattle-2.html&lt;/a&gt;

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<p>All of you need to stop being harsh. I know that feeling of sudden dread, the urge to back away from the college you choose and go back to senior year. Christ13r, start reaching out. If you can’t afford the school call and tell them NOW. We will succeed.</p>

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<p>^The OP got some good input, particularly considering that they started 10 threads, most with long pleading titles because nobody responded in the first few minutes.</p>

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<p>I did not bother to read this entire thread, or any of the other identical threads…but it sounds to me like you didn’t even get accepted by Seattle. So what’s the issue? You’re going to Tacoma. Should you have gone to Seattle? It doesn’t matter. They didn’t accept you there.</p>

<p>It’s far too early to be thinking about transferring. If you go to Tacoma with that mindset, of course you’re not going to like it. Just go there with the attitude of “yeah, this is awesome, I’m going to college,” and you’ll be fine. If you end up legitimately not liking it there, then consider transferring, but don’t go there with the assumption that you won’t.</p>