<p>BigAppleDaddy, why did you make the very racist assumption that only “random white folks” view me in terms of affirmative action? You couldn’t be more incorrect. Countless times in the last four years I’ve had African American leaders point to me as an example of affirmative action success. My gf is from Malaysia. She told me years ago that when we first met she just assumed that I was admitted to Columbia because of affirmative action. Such assumptions are not the exclusive domain of white people; every race makes them. </p>
<p>As to your question, “What do you think that those same people who think you were admitted to an Ivy or hired because you were black would have thought about you BEFORE afirmative action?” I believe the answer is that they would have had no choice but to conclude that I made it to Columbia because of merit. Affirmative action has given all them the ability to assume otherwise.</p>
<p>But don’t get me wrong. I am not against the underlying purpose of affirmative action. I wish more of my brothers and sisters were beside me. However, my hope is that someday our culture will somehow lose its fascination with hip hop, the NBA, and the gangster vibe and start focusing on education. I grew up poor in bad neighborhoods but I (and my siblings) succeeded because our parents emphasized education – every bit as much as my gf’s Asian parents emphasized it in their home. To me, it is obvious that home expectations are the single most important factor in whether a student succeeds academically. </p>
<p>I do agree with you that what people think of me is irrelevant. Perhaps as I age and mature, this stigma will bother me less. I hope so.</p>