DOES SHE LIKE ME??? Im dying to know!!

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>I really like this girl now and was wondering if she thinks the same of me. </p>

<p>Here's what I think could be positive clues:</p>

<p>*Our prom just passed. 2 weeks before that, we were talking about prom and such. She brought up then that if I needed a date to prom, she would be available. I ended up not going. The day after prom, I talked to her about prom and told her that I regretted not going. She said that she could take me to prom...next year.</p>

<p>*Our level of conversation has gone from "Hi how are you?" to " (name)!!! hi!!" and "hey babe, whatsup?"</p>

<p>*It used to be that we wouldnt even touch each other when we talked. Now we hug...something that she started. </p>

<p>*Im a graduating senior and shes a junior. I will be attending college in the same area, so I will still be around. She keeps telling me to come back and visit when I leave. </p>

<p>*Shes been wanting to hang out with me, as we bring it up in many convos.</p>

<p>On the flip side, however:</p>

<p>*She DID go to prom with some other dude. I dont care about it, but just pointing it out.</p>

<p>*We talk on facebook a lot. I do tag her in notes and photos and stuff, and never get responses from those. When we would have facebook chats, sometimes it would take her forever to respond. And yes, she uses facebook A LOT.</p>

<p>*When we'd see each other in the hallways, sometimes she just walks by me with just a simple "hey".</p>

<p>What do you think? Likes me? ...or is just playing with me?</p>

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<p>Some girls inadvertently give off the wrong signals. I don’t think she’s necessarily playing with you though.</p>

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<p>so does that mean she likes me?</p>

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<p>^How do you expect us to know? Answer: We can’t.</p>

<p>Try talking to her more, if that’s what you want to do. Ask to hang out. It’s impossible for us to know. She may…she may not.</p>

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<p>She’s probably unsure about you. Maybe get to know her a little better on an emotional level. Make her feel comfortable. Girls use intuition as a defense mechanism when dating so make sure you make her feel like she can trust you.</p>

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<p>You’re getting too excited about a small issue and overanalyzing things. just go with the flow.</p>

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<p>maybe shes just being nice bc you are leaving soon?</p>

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<p>not only does she like you, but she wants your cawk,.</p>

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<p>Ok, here’s a girl’s perspective:</p>

<p>I wouldn’t worry about the guy she went to prom with unless they go out a lot besides prom. I went with a guy other than the guy I liked because he was going with someone else and I wanted to go with a date (well, I actually didn’t want to go…my mom made me, so I told her I wasn’t going without a date).</p>

<p>It’s hard to tell from just a list of things like this, but it sounds like she at least has some interest…it may just be to be friends or it may be something more…girls are ridiculously hard to read (even for other girls lol) and high school girls can be horrible to figure out sometimes, for so many reasons.</p>

<p>Have you guys hung out together or is it just something you talk about doing??</p>

<p>I would say that if you are interested, you should take some time to see if there is something there and look for clues when you guys are hanging out. Huge signs are if she always seems to be smiling at you when you two are together or if she touches you (tickling, a poke, hand on your arm, even a playful hit to the shoulder, etc.). If she does those two things, I would say she is pretty into you.</p>

<p>One thing a lot of high school girls will do (trust me, I did it A LOT lol) is find a way to show up around you a lot. So if you have a class near her, she may linger nearby until you’re there instead of going straight to the next class so she can see you during that passing period, but she won’t make it obvious (or she’ll try not to, anyway). So if you’re running into her more lately, she may be doing that intentionally because she likes you.</p>

<p>Now, you are going off to college, so you should definitely try and concentrate on meeting people at UCSD and not let yourself get hung up on her if she doesn’t like you, but you have time to figure that out. You’ve got 4 months, a lot of which you won’t have to worry about school, where you can hang out and figure out if she likes you (maybe ask her out? That’s the quickest way to find out…) and if not, you’re going to have a pool of tens of thousands of new people to meet in a few months.</p>

<p>Hope I helped a little…good luck :)</p>

<p>– Felicia</p>

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<p>^ lulz</p>

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<p>Hahaha this is so cute, dating advice on CC</p>

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<p>Well said Felicia!</p>

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<p>Man up. Girls like guys who are confident and will just be upfront with their feelings. Your friendship may be a little awkward if she doesn’t reciprocate, but hey–you’re in college and won’t necessarily have to see her everyday.</p>

<p>She sounds like she’s at least a little interested, but nothing’s going to be handfed to you. You’re going to have to be assertive if you want this to go anywhere besides the friend zone.</p>

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<p>Bro, just take the bait and run with it.
If she cuts the line, oh well…
Sorry for the fishing metaphor.</p>

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<p>wow you seriously fail. i had a similar situation my senior year in high school. it turns out this girl had been into me for a while and she thought i was interested because i like to look around in class a lot because i have a short attention span and sometimes we randomly exchange eye contact. out of nowhere she started giving me hugs and that alone was evidence enough that she wanted me to tap that. so i did, and we dated for a bit on and off during the summer. an acquantance that you barely know asking for hugs is the most obvious sign a girl can give… she might as well be rubbing up against you. like everyone else said before me, man up and make a move… you sound like an insecure middle schooler. anyways gooooooood luck!!!</p>

<p>is this kevin brown’s brother??? just a wild guess because you live in the san diego area</p>

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<p>This. I’m sure a lot of the active users of CC are like this though</p>

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<p>I’m a guy and I’m gona say I have the same issues too. I end up just giving up and becoming friends with them. Lol.</p>

<p>She probably has some interest in you, and she is testing the waters.</p>

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<p>yes she does, try to kiss her next time you see her</p>

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<p>Hmm…she probably does. </p>

<p>the facebook chats: she may be busy! haha</p>

<p>prom: eh…I have no idea…</p>

<p>There is a chance she may and a chance she may not. Who else does she hug? Some girls just hug everyone…</p>

<p>Ask her! confrontation is key.</p>

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<p>i say this again: GO WITH THE FLOW. STOP OVER-ANALYZING THINGS, GODAMMIT. </p>

<p>ACT FROM YOUR HEART, NOT WITH YOUR BRAIN. If you think she’s into you, SNAP UP THE DAMN OPPORTUNITY.</p>

<p>sorry i had to use caps. But for your sake, just read what I wrote.</p>

<p>In two separate occasions in my school year, I was in a very similar situation as you. Each time, when I finally thought about asking her out, I became indecisive. I started to over-analyze things, and became iffy about the outcome. And, sadly, I did not go for “the kill”.</p>

<p>And both times, both girls I liked ended up with different boyfriends, because either I got played or I did not act fast enough. </p>

<p>I came out the loser. . .and I am still haunted by those outcomes. (I know it’s going to be the last time I will crush heavily for a girl in a loong while. I’m single and just flirting around. . .eh lol.) </p>

<p>I swear the god, play the dating game like a dumb jock, not a typical CC’er.</p>

<p>And in contrast with my aforementioned language, I am NOT a D___. I just wanted to spur you into action and get you out of the stupor. ;)</p>