<p>This girl has sat in a specific seat the entire semester... until today. Her seat was open, but she chose to sit next to me, and that seat has been open the entire semester. When i walked in the room, i didn't even notice. She then asked me a question about the hw we were just about to turn in. My theory is, she could have asked anyone in the class that question. I think she waited till i came in the room so she could talk to me. I really don't know though. I'm definitely attracted to her though, I was stunned that she initiated the conversation. The problem is that the semester is nearly over and there's only one more class left. Do you think she's somewhat into me? What should I do?</p>
<p>Ask if she wants to hang out. You only have one shot at this, if you like her it’s worth a shot. If you don’t feel comfortable asking to do something not class related ask if she wants to study for the final with you. You have nothing to lose. You’ll either hit it off, make a new friend, or she says no and nothing bad happens.</p>
<p>ummm…maybe you should wait for some conclusive evidence before you decide she likes you…or you can just go to her and be direct about it and ask her out.</p>
<p>I really appreciate the input. I really don’t know what to do here. It was so unexpected.</p>
<p>The problem is that i have this extreme fear of rejection. I know it’s not rational, but i feel like it’s the biggest insult in the world to me. It would just really hurt me.</p>
<p>Well it’s obvious that at the least she’s a friendly person. So I don’t really think she would object to hanging out as friends. So do that at first, and see if you guys hit it off. I understand the fear of rejection thing, but it’s something you have to get over eventually.</p>
<p>You’re right. I just can never tell if someone likes me, or is just being friendly. It just really makes me wonder why she would switch her seat out of the blue and sit next to me.</p>
<p>Is there any fool proof way to know if a girl is interested in you before you ask?</p>
<p>lol, no, there isn’t any foolproof way to know. My advice if you don’t like rejection is to just take it easy and if she approaches you again, then try to be friendly, open, and interested.</p>
<p>I will most definitely do that. I’m also just gonna really hope she’s in one of my classes the second semester haha</p>
<p>Are you one of the smartest kids in the class or do you have a very high average? A person might want help from the best in the class.</p>
<p>Was the question trivial or difficult?</p>
<p>Next class, you could ask her if she understands the material, and offer to go over it with her if she indicates hesitation. That’s a safe approach.</p>
<p>I have a 95% in the class and i haven’t missed a single point on a quiz. She asked me what i got for number 4 when she saw i just turned my paper in and everyone else still had theirs. I came into class 5 min late and thought that he had already collected the papers, so i gave him my paper. 5 min later he collected them all. She has no idea what my grade is though. She has never seen my papers, or quizzes. I rarely participate in class. I pretty much keep to myself.</p>
<p>Just ask her if she wants to study then look at her body lanquage listen for words that will prove to you she is not interested:</p>
<p>For example ask if she wants to study for the final? If she says not really I have it covered. Then move on.</p>
<p>If she says sure. Then meet with her study later get a bite to eat.</p>
<p>It is not a big deal. Really just chill let it happen.</p>
<p>Haha it may be easy for you to say that it’s not a big deal, but trust me… It isn’t for me.</p>
<p>Yes, she want to continue a friendship with you. Just ask her directly to confirm.</p>
<p>You might like her…lol</p>
<p>I would guess 7% chance she is interested. I would ask her to study together.</p>
<p>Oh, I definitely like her. I honestly believe she wants to continue to talk to me. I just don’t know for sure. I don’t know how you can come up with such a precise percentage?</p>
<p>I think the percentage was a joke, he was treating this like some people treat chance threads… Anyway, ask her to study with you, or to grab dinner with you one night – if she says yes, great, if not, well, no harm no foul.</p>
<p>I really hope i will have the opportunity to do so.</p>