My H and I didn’t meet in or even attend the same U. We met after I was done with my grad school. In fact none of my sibs or nieces met their spouses in college.
One sib met his spouse when they were in HS but they didn’t date until they were attending college. One sib met her H when they were in grad/med school, three met via mutual friends. I met H because we were on same volleyball team. My nieces and nephew and S met their partners online!