<p>Sapphire,
I don’t think you are lost. You just have all these questions. Good questions. =D> </p>
<p>First, about the Ivy League and its peers. Certainly these are great schools, but nobody should limit themselves to applying only to those kinds of universities. They are extremely competitive to get into. Also, in the long run, an “Ivy” education might not be all that important. Read this article in the today’s Wall Street Journal:
<a href=“http://online.wsj.com/news/article_email/SB10001424052702303417104579544161033770526-lMyQjAxMTA0MDAwNzEwNDcyWj”>http://online.wsj.com/news/article_email/SB10001424052702303417104579544161033770526-lMyQjAxMTA0MDAwNzEwNDcyWj</a></p>
<p>What about all-girls schools? Well, since I am not a girl, perhaps it is not my place to answer that question. Still, I will give it a shot – one advantage and one disadvantage. The one advantage is that the instructors are more used to teaching the way that women learn. This is probably a bit controversial, but some people believe that men and women learn, and think, differently (even when they are learning and thinking about the same thing). The disadvantage is that there simply aren’t that many all girls schools. I think only 47, and if you are not Catholic then you might make that number more like 38 or 39 (by the way, only two schools in America are all guys). So, there are far fewer colleges to choose from, and probably you would only be interested in 3 or 4 of them. And, to the best of my knowledge, all of them are small… next topic.</p>
<p>Large versus small schools… Large schools give you more options for majors, and they usually have bigger reputations too. At small schools, though, you normally will have closer contact with your professors, and sometimes those professors will even invite you for dinner at their home (perhaps many times). Since you are home schooled, a small college might feel more comfortable. Umm… more like home. Socially, large schools let you just be who you are. You can have lots of friends or not very many. You can hang out with Christians, or with athletes. Basically, at large schools you can pick your friends, but at small schools you will not see many new faces and most people will know who you are.</p>
<p>When you go to a college in a rural location, the college is your city… regardless of whether the school is large or small. An urban school gives you more to do, but also can have issues like crime, air pollution, and bad traffic.</p>
<p>Christian and non-Christian is similar to all girls or not. First, their are not that many Christian colleges, and most of them are pretty small. The bigger a school gets the harder to maintain the strength of their faith. Notre Dame is one of the few exceptions. Plus, many Christian schools might be a different kind of Christianity than you are used to. So, like the all girls issue, you might only be interested in 3 or 4 Christian colleges (or maybe less). At non-Christian colleges, especially large universities, you can find plenty of Christian friends.</p>
<p>IMPORTANT POINT: if you start trying to combine a bunch of factors, it makes things harder. For example, if you think that you want to go to a small all girls Christian college in a big city. Well, there might not be any. I don’t know if there are or not. At most maybe only two, I would think. What if you don’t like those two? So combining preferences is very tricky. The solution to this problem is to know your own priorities, and be able to stick with what you consider most important.</p>
<p>Yep, this is a lot of stuff to think about. The good news is that you ARE thinking about it. Many students don’t really do that. You would be surprised how many students go off to college and have no idea what they are getting into.</p>
<p>:)>- </p>