<p>Oh crap. Mom2 collegekids got the income right. EFC - 30, huh? That’s what I was afraid off. So any money over $45 not in retirement accounts gets counted - is that just the money over 45 that gets counted or the whole thing? We have about $70,000 not in retirement accounts - so is just the 25,000 counted? </p>
<p>------- The $45k was an estimate…it varies by age of the older parent.</p>
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<p>I’ve seen threads where 3.0 students get aid from private schools - better than they’d get from a public. So I guess I was hoping we could find private schools that would come the same price as a public.</p>
<p>----------That doesn’t mean that they got more aid than their EFC would be. A person could have an EFC of $15k and get NOTHING from a public and be expected to pay the full cost, but at a private they may be expected to pay just their EFC of $15k. So, in their case, a private is cheaper…but that’s also because they can afford to pay their EFC.</p>
<p>You have an unaffordable EFC…that is a totally different story!</p>
<p>Example: Private school COA = $50k
EFC = $30k
need = $20.</p>
<p>So getting $20k in a mix of grants, loans, and work study STILL MEANS that you have to pay the $30k EFC. And you could pay more if the school doesn’t meet need.</p>
<p>However, if your child applies where she’d get a HUGE merit scholarship that covers all need and then cuts into EFC, then you’ll pay less.</p>
<p>You need to figure out how much you CAN pay and tell your D. </p>
<p>Try the NPC on Penn State and other school sites. </p>
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<p>That’s the problem. We make too much for aid, but there’s no way we can afford $30,000 a year. And our daughter is just an average student. But average students need to go to college and have a career, too …</p>
<p>----- Yes, they may need to go to college, BUT that doesn’t mean going away to school. That is a luxury. Most kids do NOT get to go away to school. If you want that for your child, you either have to pay for it, borrow the money, or find schools that will give your child huge merit. If her stats won’t allow for that, then you either have her commute or you pay the costs to go away.</p>