<p>haha...moni: what you said made me laugh, not only because of what you said, but also because it reminded me of a situation that im in...heehee..</p>
<p>oh, and what you put for ur location (sunny florida where we all go to school on the beach), i can only wish, esp. with the sucky weather that south florida has had the past month :(</p>
<p>When people from other places hear you're from Florida they always say "So, you like, go to school right on the beach?" and I go, "Yep. Actually, im taking tanning class right now"... its crazy..People just don't know that all of Florida isnt beaches and parties... we don't all live on South Beach. lol</p>
<p>And Im in the situation too..and kinda pursuing it...its weird. I just realize that I'm ALWAYS going after the fun guy after I've scolded myself for being shallow. Then theres no reason not to pursue it.</p>
<p>It's ok to compliment girls and try to make them laugh. But don't COMPLIMENT by REPEATING yourself over and over and over again. It's soooooo annoying. ><;;; From my point of view, I see guys complimenting girls way too much just to get their attention might make the girls think A) Does he like me? B) Is he trying to get into my pants? C) Is he using me? oo;;; All those questions might pop into some girls' head. Here's an advice for the guys and girls :] Don't try to impress your crush too much. If he/she is not into you, he/she is not the one for you. ><; That's what I learned >/ couple months ago. :P ^^;;; Sorry if I don't make sense at all.</p>
<p>in my case; the girl would be like, i wanna f you right here, right now.l</p>
<p>Yeah. A girl doesn't know you like her if you compliment her on her brain. Looks are what attract people. And she probably spends countless money and hours trying to look good for you and other girls.</p>
<p>I know I would be flattered if someone called me smart, but I'd be even more flattered if someone called me beautiful. Especially since I don't do anything. Heehee ^_^ Then again, there is nothing wrong with combining the two. If the girl actually is smart, you really shoudl combine the two in a nice package. If she's not smart, don't bother. Just use a negative compliment.</p>
<p>Oh yeah, GUYS! What can drive a woman wild is uh... what's that word? INDIFFERENCE! And that's why negative compliments work!</p>
<p>As a professional b i tchmonger I can info'm y'all niggaz dat when it comes to pimpin hoes ya either gots it or ya ain't, a true playa be bo'n wit dem skillz, yo. Keepin' a hoe ain't no thang either, all ya gots ta do is slap dat s h i t every now and then keep tha words "B i tch, where mah money at, don't make me have to make yo' sorry ass ugleh now!" ringin' in dey ears.</p>
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In the end though, I really think that being clever is more important than being funny. Wit usually makes girls laugh while at the same time not necessarily making you seem overly goofy.
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very true..wit is extremely attractive....</p>
<p>number 1 is partially true in that not all types of humor are attractive...
number 2 is also partially true; compliment her on who she is, not on her gpa. I would hate constant comments about how I look (though the occasional one is always a confidence booster) yet, i would hate even more comments about my intelligence - it may just be me, but when people say I'm smart, I feel like they're only talking to me because I can help them with their homework or tutor them and such.</p>
<p>the fact that some girls don't acknowledge this will cost them dearly in the future, because they are stuck up, and will get sooo screwed (tricked, not fu c ked ) by some guy, that they will not know what hit them. They think they are soooo smart... they are living in the clouds</p>
<p>Wow, I can't begin to count the times girls have asked me where the toilets are or what the time is. I always just point the way to or read the time off my watch. If I'd known they were actually flirting with me...</p>
<p>Anyway, fact is, girls don't need "pick-up lines". I mean, if you're a girl and you want to get laid, feckin grab the bloke by the crotch and simply say "f u ck me". So long as you're not fat or ugly and the guy's not completely whipped by his girlfriend or married, you're going to get laid. Period.</p>
<p>I'd like to see a lad try that on a girl LOL. He'd end up with one hell of a slap/punch and probably an expensive sexual assault lawsuit.</p>
<p>Man, it IS better to be a girl. Girls can get laid anytime they want! Guys actually have to work for it. Even being a very good-looking guy only makes it about as easy to get laid as it is for any average-looking girl. But I guess the trade-off is that promiscuous girls are "sluts" while promiscuous guys are "studs."
The logic is that females are generally more selective than males because there is more at stake biologically in the sexual act for females (i.e. pregnancy for women versus mere ejaculation for men-- even when both know rationally and in fact vehemently wish to avoid any such pregnancy, our sexual behavior is heavily influenced by these biological imperatives). A good-looking guy can get laid far more easily than an average-looking guy, but a girl so long as she at least average-looking COULD have sex with virtually any guy she wishes if she was "slutty" enough (I enclose the term in quotation marks because I am aware that it applies unfairly between the sexes).</p>
<p>Yeah, girls have it lucky. Thats why it is best to be as cocky and confident as possible if you are a guy. Girls like guys that seem hard to get, which explains why guys with girlfriends get hit on more. The more of a jerk you are, the faster you will get laid. So, for all the nice guys in the world out there, be thankful for strip clubs and hookers!!!</p>
<p>wow..that's complete bs...
arrogant jerks are turn-offs...</p>
<p>^I agree. (+characters)</p>
<p>I think you should definitely compliment a girl on whatever it is that you like about her, whether it be intelligence or looks. Just make sure you're truly sincere about what you say, and that you don't over do it. Repeating the same compliment about how smart you think she is will start to sound phony, and then it'll make her self-conscious and uncomfortable. Spread it around a little, and just be honest. </p>
<p>I personally would love it if a guy showed some appreciation for my intelligence, but I would also love to be complimented on my looks, too. Pretty and smart aren't mutually exclusive. If you always say how pretty she is, she'll think you're shallow. If you always talk about smart she is she'll think you think she's not pretty. So, say something nice when you really notice it at that moment, like "Hey, you look really pretty with your hair like that..." or "Wow, you got that math problem right? I had such a tough time with that..." Ok, maybe those sound kind of corny, but you get my drift, right? </p>
<p>As for funny, girls love a guy with a sense of humor. Just don't try to hard, and maybe think about the joke to yourself before you say it out loud... sometimes it maye have sounded great in your head and then it comes out sounding stupid.</p>
<p>I do not "systematically seek out and target" teenage girls; if anything I am exceptionally responsible because instead of just leaving it to the heat of the moment to decide how I feel about this (or not caring at all about "taking advantage" of a girl who's jumping on YOU)-- and I assure you this indifference or knowing exploitation IS the route most guys take-- I am actually making an effort to grapple with this issue, to figure out a coherent, practical value system. </p>
<p>P.S. IGMP unfortunately a dildo can't kiss you on the eyelids or confide in your dreams and fears or bring you chicken noodle soup when you're sick, but other than that you'll probably get more bang for buck out of one than by dating a typical male, because my characerization of our inner lives is, I am afraid, ruthlessly accurate.</p>
<p>^Great post. :)</p>
<p>edit: I meant bluevartouhi's post...</p>
<p>bluevartouhi: not corny...i personally would really love it if a guy said those things...despite the corniness, they are really sweet words :)</p>
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bluevartouhi: not corny...i personally would really love it if a guy said those things...despite the corniness, they are really sweet words
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Awwwwww, I'm sure that dream boy of yours is going to be like your best friend forever. I wonder if he will be your bridesmaid at your marriage...</p>
<p>Yo' playaz ass got no game.</p>
<p>this is why girls love gay men.</p>
<p>man<em>on</em>fire: what an immature thing to say...and to tell you, a lot of girls like a guy to also be able to be like a best friend to her in addition to being a boyfriend...</p>
<p>my god...i wonder how many girls you've gotten with that attitude...</p>
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Awwwwww, I'm sure that dream boy of yours is going to be like your best friend forever. I wonder if he will be your bridesmaid at your marriage...
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of course not! every girl wants the exact opposite...
a guy who can't hold an intelligent conversation and is so ridiculously whipped that he will agree to every word that comes out of her mouth and fulfill her every wish/command. Boyfriends should be servants with benefits.</p>