<p>Hi newjersey.
My sophomore son at SMU has always had a single. He’s had a strong preference for a single from day one. </p>
<p>Lots of people have told us what johnangle said – that it’s one of the worst things you can do. But, I think it depends on the person. For the majority of people, having a roommate is probably a good idea. In a handful of other people’s cases, I think it’s better to go for a single. Maybe if your son goes back and forth on the idea, then a roommate is better for him as well. ?</p>
<p>My sophomore son’s dorm experiences have been very different, even though he’s had a single each year.</p>
<p>Freshman year, he lived in Morrison-McGinnis, which is where most freshmen who end up with singles live, as we understand it. I do think it takes a particular type of person to enjoy that experience and not feel socially isolated. We were told that the Mo-Mc singles were probably the least requested singles and therefore the easiest to get as freshmen. The reason? They are all in one separate wing of the Mo-Mc hall; they are kind of physically isolated from everything; and they are very quiet.</p>
<p>The singles shared a community bathroom, which my son hated. His single was huge. He liked having a quiet place to study and hang out. But, he did feel kind of disconnected from the pulse if he spent too much time in his room. All the people around him were likewise in singles; they didn’t share the same majors; they didn’t share the same interests; there was little that brought them together. He wasn’t lonely or depressed. But he did feel like the action was always somewhere else, so he was always the one going to other people’s places.</p>
<p>He would rather have had a single at Mo-Mc than no single at all. So he was grateful for it.</p>
<p>His sophomore year is in Shuttles, and he loves it! He shares a bath with one other single. His room is tiny! To me, it looks like it’s about the size of a large walk-in closet. He likes sharing a bathroom with just one other person. He likes living among all the other doubles, so that there’s always stuff going on. It’s a very social hall, as are the halls around it.</p>
<p>I don’t know anything about Cockerell, except where it’s located. Sorry! :)</p>
<p>The other son I’ve talked about on the SMU forum is going to request a roommate. He’s still in high school and has applied to SMU. His ideal dorm arrangement would be a single bedroom in a suite-style dorm with 2-4 roommates. He loves to be around people, but he would prefer his own bedroom.</p>
<p>I hope this helps. I’m worried that it won’t, except maybe to give some things to think about, since people like and dislike different things. Good luck! :)</p>