Dorm question (frosoco)

<p>So I applied to stay in frosoco my freshman year because during admit weekend it seemed really fun and the rooms were really nice and everything, and i just found out i'm staying there this year.</p>

<p>but... after looking around on the internet i'm kinda nervous because everyone's been saying it's kind of lame, filled with nerds and such. (edit: not that i'm calling them that; i did choose it as my priority housing) i'm sure there will be cool people there, but will it be hard to meet other people because i'm in such a remote and secluded dorm? i definitely still want to meet plenty of other people from other dorms and everything.</p>

<p>and i'm not a hardcore partier or anything, but i'd definitely like to be able to go to parties if i want to. will living in frosoco kind of kill my social life? I'm just afraid I'll be bored there.</p>

<p>i guess i'm just nervous that i won't be able to meet people in traditional dorms and that life in my dorm will be kind of lame. any suggestions/answers?</p>

<p>I'm sure the people who live in frosoco don't think they are "lame" or "nerds". I'm sure they are very nice people. Maybe your not as cool as you think you are. Ever wonder what people say about you?</p>

<p>Wow guitars...defensive much? Totally uncalled for given the nature of what the question was. </p>

<p>Anyway, to answer your question, I don't think you'll be significantly hindered in meeting people. You'll find people in the dorm that you like and a lot of the events and parties aren't things that are inaccessible to FroSoCo residents. </p>

<p>Basically (and this is true for any dorm that anyone lives in, not just FroSoCo), it's up to you how many people you met outside your dorm. Whether this is in your involvement in a student group or just by getting to know people during orientation or visiting people for a study session, these aren't things that would be limited by the fact that you live in FroSoCo.</p>

<p>And just as a personal anecdote (which may not be universally applicable...) to show that distance doesn't really matter: I lived in an all-frosh dorm (in Stern) and looking back on friends I met from other dorms, I knew some from FroSoCo (that I knew from student groups that I was in and student groups that my roommate was in), but none of them were from a dorm that was next door to me.</p>

<p>Take home message: FroSoCo's distance will only be a problem if you let it be. If you want to meet people from other dorms, you can...and your social life will be fine.</p>

<p>wow, guitars. thanks, way to totally miss the point of my question.</p>

<p>i'm not trying to be mean, i'm just saying that from what i've heard it's a dorm where a lot of quiet people who like to study stay. yeah, that'll be nice, but i'm just nervous that staying so far away from everything will make it hard to meet people.</p>

<p>"I'm sure they are very nice people"
yeah, that would be why i said, "i'm sure there will be cool people there". but i'm afraid that i won't be able to meet people outside of the 180 or so people in the dorm. that's all i'm asking.</p>

<p>don't have to be rude about it. one of the reasons i even chose to stay there is because i like that i'd have a quiet place to study, but want to be able to still go out and stuff if i want to. besides, can i get help from someone who actually attends the university?</p>

<p>thanks .... that really makes me feel better. haha.</p>

<p>and thanks for understanding that i'm not trying to say anything bad about people in frosoco. i mean, i am living there after all :D</p>

<p>sorry for sounding harsh, that was not the intent. I'm a parent and when you get to be my age you start to realize that what's important in life is what's inside not the outside or even whether someone is cool or nerdy. You will meet lot's of interesting people in classes and dining halls etc. I'm sure you'll even meet some very nice people in the dorms. Again, please accept my apology :)</p>

<p>From my experience in FSC, you can easily choose to branch out and meet people in other dorms or hang out exclusively with dormmates. On party nights, a pretty sizable group often gathers to head out to parties together, so we have a pretty healthy interest in campus life outside of FSC. But we don't throw large parties often (usually it's more along the lines of football watching parties, holiday parties, birthday parties, gaming/LAN parties, baking/crafts parties, etc.).
Being in Governor's Corner will be more difficult to convince people from east campus to come visit you, but definitely not impossible. It's pretty easy to get people from Lag to come visit. And as I'm sure you saw during Admit Weekend, though the dorm is generally nerdier and quieter than most dorms, it's a pretty close-knit, friendly community, and there's always something fun going on somewhere in the dorm should you seek it.
Hope that helps. By the way, you should check to see your room assignment online if you want (or you can wait to be surprised on move in day).</p>

<p>No don't worry FroSoCo won't kill your social life :) people in frosoco tend to be very smart driven people (I should know my roommate lived there for 2 years!) but they are really friendly people and it does form a nice close knit community. Of course if you want ot meet people outside your dorm you can-it's really not that much further than lag.</p>

<p>I know FroSoCo is a combination of freshmen and sophomores...but what makes them smarter and more driven than the rest of the population?</p>

<p>I think it's probably a combination of self-selection and reinforcement from peers. The kind of kids who choose FSC usually choose it due to its additional academic programming, and when you're surrounded with people who care about academics, you also choose to work hard. And on a related note, I've heard that FSC has the second highest dorm average gpa, behind phi psi. :)</p>

<p>It's a self selected group of people symphonymom. The people who actually apply to frosoco (do u have to write an essay to get in too? I cant remember) and decide that they want to live there (a quieter smaller dorm) tend to be less of the party type. I wouldn't say that they're necessarily smarter then the rest of the population but I do think that they tend to be more driven. I've known 5 people who've lived in FroSoCo well enough to call them my friends (and 2 really well) and all of them are very driven and in a way sort of nerdy. This obviously isn't very empirical.</p>

<p>Thanks! Gustav, what is the additional academic programming? And...what is phi psi?<br>
One of S's friends (who is quite driven) has chosen FSC...do the driven kids like to be together or is there something more academic about this setting?</p>

<p>mchuy- I agree with Pistachio that it will only be hard for you to make friends in other dorms if you let it be a problem. I think some types of classes and activities will be plenty to meet people from other dorms. I had a friend in Lag freshman year who ended up coming over almost every day so much that people in fsc thought she lived here and people in Lag didn't know she lived there (yes, that's how cool fsc is). It is kind of hard to get other people to visit (our one big party last year didn't draw that many people, because fsc is so far away and we have a reputation of being non-partying types but the music was actually pretty good and I think people had fun) but I have a good friend all the way in Mirrielees who came over to see me quite often (that's about as far apart as dorms get). There were definitely people who went to parties on the weekends, and there were also kids who partied at fsc on the weekends (which annoyed me to no end when I was extremely sleep deprived >_<... but I love them anyways). It depends what you think a social life is. If you think it's talking to people, getting to know them, doing fun and quirky things, then fsc will be awesome. There are always opportunities to hang out with people on weekends, watch random movies, play games, play sports, anything you want! If you think a social life is just getting drunk, some rooms will be awesome and the rest will be "lame." I met super awesome people who are always amusing and interesting. There are people with interests of all sorts, so I think you could only get bored if you let yourself. "it's a pretty close-knit, friendly community, and there's always something fun going on somewhere in the dorm should you seek it" is totally true, and it's why I loved fsc. And yeah, it's great to be able to study quietly in my own room.</p>

<p>So, yes you probably will be able to meet people in other dorms. And it depends what you consider to be lame. </p>

<p>guitars- I do consider myself a nerd, but I'm definitely not lame. </p>

<p>about being driven- yeah I guess we are sort of self-selected. I mean part of why I wanted to be in fsc because it was quiet and there are a lot of techies, which is a good environment to study and more conducive to academic pursuits than a dorm where people are loud all the time. I think the fact that there are a lot of techies might help make it seem more driven. I am NOT saying that fuzzies are unmotivated or anything like that, but from what I've seen, many techy classes involve a lot more work and studying in general (not always) which means you simply have to study more to keep afloat. This is just a general observation and in no ways intended to insult fuzzies, who can be equally driven and are also awesome. I should know- my roommie was a super workaholic fuzzy <3. </p>

<p>additional academic programming- I can't remember exactly, but there were a bunch of info sessions and stuff. There are also Dean's Dinners where (usually famous) professors come and give a lecture in the lounge followed by fancy dinner at the dean's house if you sign up ahead of time. Aaaand other stuff like that...FroSoCo also has a full set of residential tutors for math and science (and the ones last year could do basically anything including econ) as well as a couple for writing and oral communications. One girl told me that in her dorm (somewhere in Stern), nobody got together to work on problems sets like we did. o.o!</p>

<p>other things I liked: brownie nights- almost every monday the RFs feed us brownies and other goodies. Ricker Dining Hall- the best one I've eaten at and I've eaten at Wilber, Stern, Lag, and Manzanita. It has pretty good food and the staff members are really nice! The manager actually cares about your experience and one of the ladies learned my name and pronounced it right and would always greet me when I came in for breakfast. 'Twas frankly amazing. </p>

<p>ok enjoy the long rambly post! :D</p>

<p>bumpity bump.</p>

<p>i think this could be really helpful to '13s considering FroSoCo.</p>

<p>OP, you already have your housing assignment?? If I read that right…</p>

<p>this is a bump of a thread from last year. i just bumped it up here because people (including me) were asking about frosoco.</p>