<p>I agree with Astro, regarding dorms being the same today as it was in our generation.</p>
<p>I dated Bullet in the mid-late 80’s while he attended UMDCP. He lived in Easton. </p>
<p>I don’t care if you are in a Honors, Gemstone, Scholars or traditional dorm. It is like Astro stated. These dorms are made out of cinder brick, and no hallway carpeting. Noise travels.</p>
<p>During mid terms and finals they will institute “quiet hours”. Yet, during the rest of the yr you will hear noise.</p>
<p>Additionally, kids will survive be it with AC or no AC. Part of my best college memories is living in dorms and I only was bothered by it on Sunday a.m. since the janitorial staff doesn’t work weekends.</p>
<p>UMDCP has never been known for their food or their dorms…but honestly are you really attending or sending your child there because they have been ranked as the best dorms in the nation?</p>
<p>Surely the answer is no.</p>
<p>I have 2 in college, one at UMDCP and 1 at VT, and a 3rd that is a rising HS sr. I will tell you my concern is that they “match” regarding their room mate, not if it is loud, silent, AC, suites, etc.</p>
<p>If the kids are not matches in personality, that is more stressful than not having AC for the 1st and last 6 weeks of the school yr.</p>
<p>I also believe that it is best to let the school match the kids for roommates.</p>
<p>DS allowed UMDCP to do it, DD decided to do the FB route. </p>
<p>DS and roommate never became BFFs, but they “lived” with each other because there was no preconception of what it would be like.</p>
<p>DD and her roommate could not survive, and parted ways for spring semester. They went in with a mis-conception because they “chose” each other.</p>
<p>If you “select” your roomie, beware it comes with strings attached from an emotional POV. Allowing the school to choose and there is the automatic line drawn. It is more congenial because you immediately respect each other, and do not take it each other for granted. You can also be honest without it being personal.</p>
<p>DD who did the FB roommate, knew she had a BF. She didn’t realize every other weekend he would be there for the entire weekend. She didn’t realize that they would Skype every night and if they fought she would be forced to leave the room for their privacy or her feeling uncomfortable. </p>
<p>She lived as a stranger/outsider in her own dorm room because she committed to live with her.</p>
<p>The roommate is more important than the dorm IMPO.</p>