so i’m going to SDSU and moving all the way from Indiana. my boyfriend however is not attending college and i have to live on campus for the first year, if i got a single dorm would he be able to live with me because I am attending SDSU? need help because i really want him to live with me.
Check your school’s policy, but I can’t imagine any college would allow your non-student boyfriend to live in the dorm with you.
You can check with ResLife at the school, but in all honesty I can’t imagine any circumstance where they will allow a live-in boyfriend who is not a student to live in a dorm.
contact the school
I’m sure that they are not allowed to live not in the dorm.
Because it contradicts school rules
Most schools have a limit on days for overnight guests who are not enrolled in the university. It may be limited to one or two. But, check your colleges policies. I highly doubt this is allowed at any school.
I am going to just say NO. Married yes, boyfriend who doesn’t attend college, no way. Plus it’s a bad idea any how. What kind of college life do you envision for yourself? How is he going to feel sitting aorund in your dorm room doing nothing while you are studying and meeting new people? You have to stand the test of distance like everyone else. If it’s meant to be, it will happen regardless of him living with you. Furthermore, if this relationship was so important, you could have gone to college in state. Now is the time to spread your wings and see where they carry you. You should encourage your boyfriend too. It’s not healthy for him to sit around waiting for you either.
Absolutely agree with @Lindagaf “You have to stand the test of distance like everyone else.”
SDSU Rules state: The same guest may not stay in a residence hall for more than four (4) nights per calendar month and may only stay two (2) consecutive nights per calendar month.
Plus, it is not like a hotel. He will not have a key or student ID and can be stopped at any time as a trespasser. (Your RA and floor mates will notice his presence.) No, he should go find something to do to make him worthy of the college-educated woman you are becoming. He should go to college, trade school, get a job, start a business, etc. Dependent relationships breed resentment and lead to their end. .