<p>I will just say that one thing being an adult (parent) is to plan ahead. We planed for number of kids we could afford. If I had 100 bucks, and I had 2 kids, then each would get 50. In our case, financially we are better off when our younger one is in college, so we need to be more careful not to give her more than the older one. </p>
<p>I have always been been helpful with my parents and family, but my kids’ well being came before anyone else’s, which included their education. I told my kids I would pay for for the best college they could get into, and my family had to wait behind that.</p>