<p>Assuming your parents really do have a seven-figure income, their position with respect to you is unfortunate, but reality. I agree with those who have commented on the fact that you applied ED and didn’t withdraw your UC applications. It is unethical for you to go forward. Since you really don’t want to go to UC schools, I think a gap year might be helpful. You could participate in a community service program like City Year (there’s one in NYC) or you could work for a year. Either way, I think it would demonstrate to your parents that you are serious about wanting to attend Columbia. City Year also provides around $5-6K for alumni that they can use for college tuition after they’ve finished their service commitment.</p>