<p>*They want me to go to UCR or UCI, not even UCSD. *</p>
<p>Sounds like you live in the area of those two campuses and your parents want/expect you to come home frequently? Like maybe every weekend? </p>
<p>You say that your bro had a baby at 18? And this one went off to a pricey college? Maybe they’re worried that a D getting pregnant would have different results?</p>