Dreading college, dreading Yale...

<p>I’ve heard that these worries are normal before going to college. But honestly, don’t stress it. You’re smart enough to get into Yale; I’m sure you’re smart enough to pass your classes. Of course your grades won’t be as good as you’re used to, but that’s because almost all of your peers will be just as qualified as you are, probably for the first time in your life. And honestly, do you think grades matter THAT much? You go to Yale. That’s already impressive enough to any prospective employer.</p>

<p>That said, just try to balance your life at Yale starting with day one. Study, make friends (this should be your first priority when you arrive), and try to live healthy. Establish a loose schedule and see how you handle it. I wouldn’t try to get involved with much else until you start to learn your limits.</p>

<p>Also, NEVER be afraid to ask for help from anyone. I learned this lesson in high school when I buckled under pressure, but it applies to college and life in general. If you’re struggling in your classes or feel overwhelmed and sleepless, reach out to your professors. It will show that you’re trying your best and you care about your work. At the least, they’ll have mercy when you turn in a rushed term paper, and at most, you might get some deadline extensions or even a B when you deserve a C.</p>