<p>*i read your posts but i stopped posting because i found it to be a complete waste of time because i could not extract an single bit of information that I found useful. *</p>
<p>That certainly is a possibility when asking for advice- particulary when those giving the alternate perspective are trying to be actually helpful and not just rubberstamping the original opinion.</p>
<p>However, there may be others reading this thread who are interested in gauging what is " appropriate" behavior- and turning a blind eye to a young adult who uses substances enough to get in trouble for it- just because their parent doesn’t want treatment for substance use to interfered with the 4-yearplan, is not healthy behavior.</p>