<p>Freshman year my D suffered incredible culture shock coming from SoCal attending an IVY. All she talked about was transfering to the popular LAC in her home town. All her high school friends "loved" their local schools and she felt like she was missing out. But once January rolled around and she found "her group" she settled in. I think it's a hard adjustment for some kids. Hopefully once Spring hits, your S will settle in and find his place at school. I know I am definately not going to worry as much with the second child next year...I know it will take some time for him to adjust to college life and find "his group" but he will survive! And so will I!</p>