From what I understand, the student posted his objection and decision not to read the book due to what he understood to be graphic sexual depictions. I am not aware of anything else he objected to or if he said the book should never have been on the list.
I’m going to parse my comments based on that alone – not the subsequent conservative or liberal respondents.
I’m a devout but probably “liberal” Christian in a fairly conservative denomination. I fiercely defend LGBT issues while feeling 100% comfortable in my belief and practice of my faith. However, I also can 100% see myself or my kid in agreement with the Duke student’s initial objection.
If my kiddo said that she opted not to read a book in a recommended list due to what she perceived as gratuitous sexual nature, I would fully back her. (And yes, our television and movie watching choices are consistent with this as well.) It would seem that some respondents on this thread can’t fathom that amongst their fellows, people live like this and consciously avoid overt sexuality.
If a Hasidic Jew or a devout Muslim opted out, would there be as much backlash? Why is this Christian Duke student held to a different standard? Why is he labelled as potentially “close minded” but we make mental accommodations to the devout Jew, Muslim or Mennonite? The pejoratives on this thread: spoiled brats, coddled babies, punks – to me are over the top and ugly. Those of you who used these terms – would you say the devout Jew, Muslim or Mennonite rises to your “punk” description? Any Christian who objects to something in broader culture is not a Westboro Baptist church member.
From my understanding of the particular section of the graphic novel, it’s not cheap but tastefully presented and vital to the story; I would feel comfortable reading it. But would support my kiddo or another person from opting out and certainly not think less of them because of it.
All I’m saying is that a person can be extremely open minded – yet wish to avoid overt sexuality and nudity if given a choice. And I’d hope my fellow liberal/progressively minded people can understand that.
(EDIT: one final anecdote. My 12 year old asked about seeing the HBO movie “The Normal Heart” depicting the initial AIDS epidemic in the 1980s, starring Mark Ruffalo. I knew it was a heavy subject so I wanted to screen it first. One of the opening scenes has a goodly amount of flesh and some frontal nudity. I thought “whoa! this isn’t gonna be OK for my kid” and thought I’d just turn it off and be done with it. But I left it on and did some chores. Then the movie progressed to a very thoughtful reflection of a vivid time in my young adulthood when I witnessed this plague among many of my friends – I watched it fully and was glad I did. Subsequently, I told my kiddo she could watch it but it was very heavy and sad – and there was a gratuitous part in the opening scenes that she should avoid. As a dad, I’m proud my kiddo wants to learn about the human condition. I’m also unafraid to guide my kid on what I deem as gratuitously sexual.)