<p>Thanks for your suggestion.</p>
<p>Any more opinion ?</p>
<p>I am about to leave for the field trip. I might have some more news for you guys this afternoon or evening.</p>
<p>Hope it went well, give us an update if you want.</p>
<p>Here is an update:</p>
<p>I am just back from the field trip. It was freezing cold there. When we arrived, she saw me and called my name and that’s it. After that, I came with the same group she was in for the whole time but she did not have any ride with me. After the first ride called Boomerang, she asked if I liked it. I said Yeah and told her that my ears were frozen. She did not say anything. From then on, we did not talk even when we were really close to each other. </p>
<p>The next time she said something to me was when we were waiting for Mind Eraser. She asked if it’s warmer in Vietnam now. I said yeah and that’s it.</p>
<p>During lunch, we sat opposite to each other but did not talk. After she got dirty by the food ( a plate got blown up and landed on her). I got some napkins and wiped out her shoes and her sleeve. </p>
<p>The last time she talked to me was when we were at school. She asked if Elisha told me how would she want the Science Fair project paper gonna be written. I asked her:" Did she tell you ?" She replied:" Yeah but not specific". She told me:" Can I write about the wing part ( we are doing aerodynamic of gliders in wind tunnel) ?" I said:" You can do whatever you want"</p>
<p>That’s the end of the day. She did not talk to me. Instead, she was talking to her ex ( he was in my group too) and her closest friend (Sarah) and other guys. She tried to ignore me or something like that. I feel like we now return to the pre prom problem of talking. She did not mention anything about those messages at all. She did not mention about prom,…</p>
<p>What is the story now ? What should I do ? Kill myself ?</p>
<p>^^^ To be honest, don’t post stuff like this on forums. No matter what people say or predict, events will unfold just the same. So my advice is to always just wait and see what happens.</p>
<p>I know. Sorry about that as I said in the beginning of my post.</p>
<p>I need some suggestions.</p>
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<p>hi nns. it’s time to chill, slow down, take a step back,… well, you get the point. </p>
<p>go to school, enjoy life with your friends, mingle and socialize with some of the other girls. Don’t dwell on it too much, aright? Believe me, if you play your cards right and just be cool about it, many more women will be part of your life. Now go out there and enjoy the remainder of the school year, and summer as well. Stay cool, man. :)</p>
<p>I know. Thanks guys. I got hurt so bad now. I started the whole thing 2 months ago with a hope that it would turn out perfect at the end but it does not. I should never ask her out to prom since she still likes her ex. I should never. How dumb am I.</p>
<p>I texted her back today, just about an hour ago. She replied:" I was surprised but I like you a lot as a friend."</p>
<p>As soon as I finish reading it, I just feel like a bad loser</p>
<p>don’t feel too bad.
girls can be confusing, trust me, i know, i am one=]
if she still has a thing for her ex, let those feelings cool off..
don’t be in her face all the time..just let her breathe a little…kinda like how you were at the fieldtrip=]</p>
<p>but don’t regret taking her to the prom..you had fun right?
…and that’s whats most important!!</p>
<p>take care.
and keep your head up.
you seem pretty cool=]</p>
<p>love.</p>
<p>NNs91…no matter whom you are or how popular you are, you will never get every single thing you want. And when something doesn’t go your way, just ignore it and move on. It may sound cheesy, but it’s what I follow nowadays. I also used to worry about small things such as people making a dumb, harmless comment.</p>
<p>But in the vast spectrum of life and the universe, who gives a #@&%? Follow this and you’ll learn to ignore things that you can’t control.</p>
<p>Well, that’s basically what you had before prom, wasn’t it? It’s okay, people aren’t generally trying to convey signals with everything they do, and it’s best not to overanalyze.</p>
<p>Yeah. I know. We still can be friends. I have been just texting with her. I spent $26 on texting this month ( just from last Saturday. I don’t have texting service). I hope it will not affect our friendship.</p>
<p>Do I still have a chance to date her ?</p>
<p>wow..you really like her $26 from txt msgs.
why not call her..
=]</p>
<p>when you have free minutes!</p>
<p>Well like a lot of other people have said, now it’s a good idea to just give her some space and act a lot like you did at the field trip from now on. If you feel unsure about how much contact is right, let her dictate how much you talk.</p>
<p>As far as still being able to date her, this is in the realm of possibilities but it’s still a while off. If she really has feelings for her ex, then just let that settle down before you try anything.</p>
<p>He told me that at first she did not like him but after a while, he did something and made she liked him and now they are just friends.</p>
<p>What do you think about that ?</p>
<p>Should I still chase her like inviting her out to movies ?</p>
<p>well give her personal space… girls HATE it when guys follow them all the time without giving them the chance to do what they want.</p>
<p>I suggest you lay off of her for a bit. The thing is, make her chase you! The game girls play is they are trying to dangle a string right in front of your face.. They only do it for so long before they get bored but what if the cat didn’t even try to go for it? The person would continue pestering it trying to see whats it all about.</p>
<p>Definitely listen to zenythz advice :). Just have some fun man and don’t worry about these things, trust me many people have had worse outcomes (definitely me) and all you have to do is learn from them.</p>
<p>Lastly, the advice I gave you doesn’t mean totally ignore her every chance you get, just act normal like you would, if you want to invite her to the movies go ahead but don’t think about how you are going to get her, just have fun.</p>
<p>I just talked to her ex about all of this. I told him what happened. I told him what I did and he said:" At first, she did not like me. I had to work it for a while. I got her because I did not give up."</p>
<p>What do you guys think about this ?</p>
<p>We are off from school this Friday until next Monday so should I take a chance to take her out to movies then ?</p>
<p>best to give her some space, and close that chapter in your book, at least for now. or, you could take that chance this weekend, and if it does not work out, then you definitely close that chapter and move on. The worst thing you can do is mope about it. Enjoy life and save some money on text messaging at the same time :)</p>
<p>Today, she did not show up at school but went to the softball practice after school. She did not say anything to me. Her ex was talking to her for a long time and he called me in. I was messing around with him for a while ( I was embarrassed to see her) but then let him pull me in. She then still did not say anything to me.</p>
<p>He then offered to help me like:" Do you want me to add in some words ?" and stuffs like that. Should I take that offer ? Is it a good idea then ?</p>