<p>I was admitted to UR off the wait-list, and have to reply back by May 8th with my deposit. I just received my FA of $35,800, but I can't afford, at any cost, to pay the remaining $16k. I really want to attend Rochester, but my father is hesitant to pay the deposit that's due this friday. I'm not sure what to do because the $16k far exceeds our expected family contribution (I mean it when I say far exceeds). If you could offer any specific suggestions, I would greatly appreciate it. Also, is there any way I can get an extension for the enrollment date? </p>
<p>Thanks!</p>
<p>Since you’ve got a deadline, don’t use this forum, hoping that dweinerman happens by. Call the Admissions Office at UR and ask the question directly. Also consider calling Financial Aid and discussing your financial situation with them.</p>
<p>Ditto. You need to be on the phone with the FinAid office ASAP (or, of you live close enough, you need to be in the FinAid office ASAP) discussing this with a financial aid counselor.</p>
<p>Call and email your financial aid officer and do the same with your admissions officer.
Consider additional loans such as parent plus loans. 16k to attend the U of R isn’t a bad deal.
It is actually less than most state schools.</p>