I know that this has been Wes’ policy has been pretty consistent for the past 15 years that I know about in both my personal and professional lives. They will tell you straight out, if money is an issue, then follow the money.
Op really needs to state exactly what he wants to happen. If the school has meet his D’s need, he is still responsible for paying the EFC. Are there any extenuating circumstances? Has the family’s financial situation changed since they first applied for financial aid (job loss, house destroyed in hurricane)?
The net-net is are any of these schools affordable options for your family?