Thanks, everyone, for the great feedback!
Hopefully that second round of visits will bring some additional clarity, and if it does not, I think I have a clearer sense of the path forward. And @socaldad2002 , we will definitely try that strategy of listing pros and cons of each college at that juncture.
It would be nice to be done by the end of 2019…but it is even more important to me that she wind up happy with her choice! (The good news is that I think she will be pretty happy at any of her choices. I am going to try to keep reminding myself of that!)
@Techno13 , I will PM you the names of the schools (if I can figure out how to do that! I don’t think I have sent a PM since the forum changed.)