Ok, I think there’s another aspect of ED that in unfortunate, besides the FA question.
It is pretty clear that at most schools, there is a real admissions advantage to applying early. This chart shows the ED & RD acceptance rates by school:
https://www.iecaonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/Early-Decision-and-Regular-Decision-Acceptance-Rates-April-2018.pdf?fbclid=IwAR3oXgn9bEVEhtxyp8BHS36zyX4r3jUAqFx7pLNbiIPXEL9nYnWMqZl_hsg
But you just have one shot. So imagine that student (who is either full pay or definitely gettin 100% need, so comparing finances is not a major factor) who dreams of going to college A, where college A is a real stretch, but not absolutely out of the realm of possibility. The student’s test scores are in the top 25%, but they know it’s still such a crapshoot. But they would be over the moon to go there, and they’ve been working so hard their whole high school career for this opportunity. They also have college B, which is a good fit, and they’d be happy to go there, and if they apply early, they are likely to get in. And college C, which is their safety, and they will be pretty disappointed to go there, no matter how hard they’ve listened to the advice “find a safety you’d be thrilled to go to.”
In the best world, there would be no ED, they could apply everywhere and evaluate all of their options. But in the ED world, should they apply early to A or to B? If they go A and do not get in, then they are facing the stiffer RD acceptance rates even for college B, and may very well end up at college C. Or, if they are risk averse, they apply early to B and get in. Should they go for their dream? Or not?
I hate this aspect of strategizing. Sure, ED works great in select situations, and it’s lovely to have an early answer. But it prevents some kids from going for their dreams, or hurts some of the ones who go for it by relegating them to college C.
Of course, all of these kids are so darn lucky to first of all just be 18! How fun. They have their whole lives ahead of them, and college C may work out just great. Big picture this may all be fine. But if I could vote, there would be no ED. Everyone would hear back at the same time, so it wouldn’t be unusually stressful waiting until March. I think it’s hard because the kids waiting sometimes feel that everyone else is already in. I think it could be better.
Plus the FA stuff.