<p>At first, I was completely set on applying ED -- 100% sure, no turning back, absolutely positive. I visited the school, and it turned out to be the university of my dreams. In my mind, the beauty of the campus easily surpassed that of all the others. Then there were the classes. Perhaps I went overboard, but I took complete advantage of their class-sitting policy, attending at least 6 classes - maybe 7 - during my brief visit. As I sat in these classes, my idealized image of the school became a reality. I could truly see myself fitting in.</p>
<p>The obvious thing would be to apply early decision. It raises my chances from "just alright," to "very likely." It confirms my true love for UPenn, and it seems like the clear choice -- the proven winner -- in order to gain passage to my dream school.</p>
<p>But, here's the twist: I'm not sure I can "afford" applying E.D.
And I need your help to resolve this looming question.</p>
<p>Some people have alluded that E.D. is a binding contract that only rich people can afford. From a financial-aid standpoint, they've also stated some things that I'd like clarification on:</p>
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<li><p>If I'm accepted E.D. to Wharton, but decline because their financial-aid offer is too low, I've been told a very horrible process follows: UPenn and other schools share E.D. information, they'll hear that I declined a "contract," and I will not get into any of the other prestigious schools I'm applying to during EA or RD.</p></li>
<li><p>If I'm accepted E.D. to Wharton, but decline for the same reason, I will NOT be able to receive financial-aid offers from other schools during EA and RD. In essence, not only will I have to withdraw from Wharton because of a lack of aid, but I will not receive any information regarding aid from other schools.</p></li>
<li><p>This is a different type of question regarding how financial-aid is calculated (in this case, I suppose specifically to UPenn, but I'd also like to understand it generally as well.)</p></li>
<li><p>I'm in a very unique situation. My parents make a decent middle-class income (135k combined, roughly), however we have enormous home loans. Moreover, our main asset is our house, and we have no real assets aside from it. Our house is worth roughly 1 million, but my parents purchased this home quite some years ago when it was much cheaper. In any case, loans are roughly 650k. If you subtract our assets from our loans, my parents have roughly 300k to retire on (which in itself is low --> I can't leech from this). Moreover, they are near the end of their working years (I fear this is not accounted for in FA. Is age of parents counted?)</p></li>
<li><p>Here's my question. We appear to be well off. We have maybe 1.2 million in assets, and the household generates 135k in income. However, the reality of our financial state is much more grim. Somehow - maybe I read this, or picked it up somewhere - I'm getting the feeling that home loans are not included in the calculation of financial-aid. I hope that I am sincerely wrong about this - but of course, that's why I'm asking. If home loans and debt are not subtracted from assets (mainly our house) in calculating FA, then I am royally screwed. I need a very large FA package.
-- Moreover, if answers to my prior questions (1. and 2.) indicate that all of this is true, then I have absolutely no way of applying E.D. to Wharton, do I? This would subsequently be extrapolated as: I'm unlikely to get into Upenn because I'll have to apply RD to a school that I would naturally demonstrate interest for by apply E.D. (under the correct financial circumstances.)
Modified as: Unless you have zero assets and a low income, financial-aid is hard to come by. Moreover, unless you're rich, you cannot afford to apply E.D...</p></li>
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<p>Some clarification from anyone nice enough to answer?</p>