<p>terrygreg,
I suggest it looks hectic because you're worried about things you don't know yet. Relax...you've been offered alot of very valuable responses to help you and your son shape the direction of this journey. If you're son knows you're stressed then he will feed off it and the experience will suck. Pick and choose those events/ideas that will work for your plan. Start to make contact with the specific colleges to find out their requirements, gather suggestions or ideas regarding what needs your son has to work on. Also contact the admissions departments of these schools for the same. Many schools already put this info online and are very internet saavy. As you both learn more about these schools and majors and your plan takes shape, I hope you'll be pleasantly suprised as you watch your son grow and mature. gl</p>