<p>I can only comment on the NYC piece of your journey.</p>
<p>General wisdom is correct: cars and Manhattan don't go well together. That said, a multi-city college trip is a bit different to plan.</p>
<p>Personally, I've not used the "motel in New Jersey" approach b/c my time is always so tight whenever I have to be in NYC.</p>
<p>IF you find it affordable, just get a hotel or Bed/Breakfast reservation on the "Upper West Side" or choose from a wider number of hotels in adjacent neighborhoods called "Lower West Side" or "Midtown/Theater District" neighborhoods. Just be sure to locate yourself on the WEST side of Manhattan Island, so all your other ground transpo and walking works better.
YOu don't want to be "across Central Park" which is "East Side," for this trip. </p>
<p>Whatever you spend extra on the hotel intown might actually pay off: fewer ground transpo needs; less time; much less stress. </p>
<p>If you'd rather make more use of the car, you could conceivably still use it to visit Columbia for a day. Columbia's right on the "edge" of Manhattan so you don't have to deal with much of it just to drive to that one neighborhood, as long as you come over the George Washington Bridge, down the Henry Hudson Parkway and into the neighborhood. Or, there's other bridges and tunnels into Midtown Manhattan, then you'd just come north (turn left!) almost immediately and up into Morningside Heights. Columbia's a real "edge-hugger"
neighborhood. You could actually drive to it and live, without encountering the entire mess of NYC traffic. </p>
<p>On the day of your walking tour, you could leave PLENTY of advanced time (an extra hour than you'd expect) to look for neighborhood side-street parking around that neighborhood, called "Morningside Heights" or the "Far Upper West Side." It's not easy or guaranteed, but with effort/time/luck I've always managed to find a metered spot on the bigger streets, and some all-day spots on side streets, walkable within a half mile to the campus. </p>
<p>If you can't get lucky, then just drive into a parking garage or open-air lot in the area. It'll cost too much, but it's only one day. You'll still have to walk from the garage to campus, of course. EVEN SO, allow TIME to find a parking garage; even 45 minutes to deal with it all. It's different. </p>
<p>People mention the Newark airport, and from there is a ground transpo bus for around $13 one-way that brings you in to Port Authority Terminal. From there, you''d take a subway or taxi up to the Upper West Side (actually, "Morningside Heights" ) neighborhood of Columbia U. The airport-Port Authority bus leaves every half hour; see airport's website under "ground transpo." </p>
<p>If you have several people travelling, it's often worth it to all jump in a cab WITHIN the city, to avoid 3 subway tickets...unless it's rush hour when the slowness for the taxi adds to the fare. </p>
<p>IN case your airline goes only to Laguardia airport, there's still ground transport to the same Port AUthority in "Midtown" manhattan. </p>
<p>(Hey... if you're absolutely intrepid like me, a city Metro bus goes from Laguardia and then locally along 125th Street (Harlem, "The Apollo Theater") before getting over near Columbia U. Many people don't like to approach Columbia from this direction b/c it gives a first impression of a poverty neighborhood (on the upswing, BTW) before they reach campus. But my S actually lives on 125th St, so I've come to use this odd approach. It saves me the entire transition through Port AUthority central bus terminal and into the subways. I go right from an airport to his doorstep, in other words, on a city bus for $2 or so. But that might be for a future trip, not this time...
Basically, west of Amsterdam Ave and south of 125th St you're not in Harlem anymore but in Morningside Heights. MH is a wonderful neighborhood, really beautiful, university oriented, walkable. To me, it's "urban heaven." From Amsterdam Ave and then going west until you fall into the Hudson River, that's the Columbia U. neighborhood, also
Union Theological Seminary, Jewish Theological Seminary, Bank St. College of Ed...so
the cafes and restuarants all feel very "university" in MH. Enjoy!! </p>
<p>An advantage of taxis or busses while you;re INSIDE NYC is you'll see the city, people, architecture, and have a sense of neighborhoods. The subway makes you feel very mole-like. Once you already live there, however, the subway is a blessing b/c it zips below all that street traffic above. If your D were to attend Columbia, she might often find herself on the subway to anywhere she likes within NYC, all for the same $2 fare no matter the destination. Or, if she likes, she can take the extra moment and use busses all over the city; they're slower due to traffic but much "prettier" always.</p>
<p>Adding a final word on that car: ALLOW PLENTY of extra time to deal with parking it, ifthat's what you choose, so you don't miss the tour departure time! In other words, if you need a meal and time to soak in the area, get the car parked FIRST in the day and then meander around. Never leave things to last-minute brinksmanship when it comes to unloading your car (millstone around your neck) inside the city.</p>