<p>Update- S came home today thoroughly depressed because the head coach talked roughly to him about his lack of commitment to the team for not staying after for workouts etc. S is mild mannered and never spoke up and told the coach his decision about next year. He just stood there and took the tongue lashing. : ( I dont want to embarrass him further by speaking with the coach, and I know this is just a sign of things to come. He stayed after school just to work out with the team and the look on his face when he came home was heartbreaking.</p>