Hello! I am a first-generation student who has narrowed down her top choice for college for ED in the next cycle, entering in Fall of 2024. I would love some help and guidance in what school is best for me, Pomona or Vassar?
I am looking into double-majoring in Media Studies and Science, Technology, and Society. I love the possibilities of an open curriculum and a small liberal art college atmosphere. I wouldn’t say I’m too alternative or super preppy but I love art! I would say that the alumni network, social life, life after college, and academics are important to me! Both schools I’ve heard have great professors, classes, and overall academics are great.
I love Vassar because they really emphasize their open curriculum and encourage students to take classes for the fun of it. When I toured I felt like the atmosphere was supportive and the people were super sweet. It was hard finding a LAC that had a good amount of “preppy” and “alternative” students. Out of the 8 LAC I toured, I felt like Vassar had both which was something I valued. Bonus for the campus and I don’t mind the “bubble” feel. I come from a small high school and I toured schools like Northeastern and Boston University and sadly their big student population overwhelmed me. I didn’t like how I felt I was an ant in a colony. I know that a smaller undergraduate population would suit me better, but I also don’t want it to be too small that I can’t find new people. Location was also not a huge factor for me, more so a bonus but not a con. So Poughkeepsie doesn’t really bother me and I can always take a train to NYC if I wanted to. I also heard that events on campus are always happening and there are dorm parties. Overall, Vassar has treated me well and it’s a great top choice for me. If anyone can speak on the alumni/networking that would be really helpful! Also life after Vassar. Is it relatively easy to get a job after graduation? I’m hoping that by going to college in New York, it would be easier to find a job in NYC or just in general.
Now, I have no idea why Pomona speaks so much to me but it does. I live in New England, so thinking about going to school in sunny weather makes me really happy. I’ve also found almost no bad reviews on Pomona. I love their 5cs and how I have access to so many classes, people, and overall faculty. Students say there’s plenty to do on campus and off campus. One student even said that Pomona even pays for the events they want to go to. I’ve seen more posts by Pomona students attending parties and school-sponsored events (they seem really fun). However, I heard that Southern California is not for everyone. If I was overwhelmed with Boston I feel like traveling to/living in California would be too much for me. My family is also pretty low-middle income so going back and forth to California would not be financially comfortable. I suspect I would only come back home 3 times a year? As a first-generation student, it sounds really scary. But I also heard that Pomona’s transition programs are really supportive, especially for first generations.
Something I am worried about is the coursework at Pomona’s. I toured Williams and Amherst and even just looking at my tour guide I can tell that the environment was stressful. The students there all said that they don’t have much time to do other things besides study. I don’t want to attend a school where I feel like all I can do is academics. I do want to have a social life without academics being too powerful that it chokes me. I’ve also seen many Pitzer, HM, Scripps, and CMC students portray Pomona students as “insufferable nerds”. I keep getting mixed reviews on how hard academics are at Pomona so if anyone has any input please let me know.
Another thing is also the fact that I’d really be on my own at Pomona. Not sure if it’s a good thing or a bad thing. I have no family in California and even thinking about where to start if I attend Pomona is a little scary. For instance, moving in into my dorm and transportation. At Vassar, first years can have their cars so move-in day is not stressful at all for me. Vassar is also only a 5-hour drive from my house so if I really wanted to, I can go home for the weekends without any issue. I have the balance of having my own independence from college but I’m also able to go back home.
After writing this I feel like it’s a no-brainer to go to Vassar, but I’d feel better if I had other’s opinions, experiences, etc to help me finally decide! Embarrassingly, I do think that Pomona’s rankings are making me question my choices. I’m not sure if Pomona being high in LAC rankings really matters that much. Especially if Vassar is Top 20 in LACs usually. My heart dreams to go to California for college but my brain disagrees.
Any help/input would be awesome