<p>I’m in your position, except I already decided on Stanford. If you were at the visit weekends, we probably met. I’ll give you a little background about me first before addressing the question at hand. </p>
<p>I worked at Stanford for three months last summer. I have numerous good friends (5+) in Stanford EE, and I know pretty much everyone from my school (Caltech) that has gone to Stanford in the past four years. </p>
<p>Stanford Quals are not easy, this is true. It’s also true that 50% of people pass on their first try (75% pass on their second try). Part of the reason for this is that Stanford does some of their weeding after admissions; this is partially related to the massive Masters program Stanford has.</p>
<p>My take on it is that while Stanford does do weeding after their admissions, it mostly weeds out people who are lower on the admit totem (i.e. Stanford is not as hard to get into as Berkeley and MIT, so the people that were only admitted to Stanford). From personal experience, it seems that all of the top applicants (fellowship funding at Stanford, in at MIT and Berkeley) pass quals their first time. Out of all the people I know who have gone from Caltech to Stanford, only one has not passed quals on their first try, and those I spoke to said it wasn’t THAT bad. </p>
<p>This doesn’t mean the quals system is a good thing. I personally don’t like it (and in fact, a lot of profs at Stanford don’t either–they are currently in the process of revising the quals system). That being said, for me, the research at Stanford was more interesting and more in-line with what I wanted to do. (And yes, more applications oriented).</p>
<p>From the competition side, I didn’t meet anyone at Stanford who was competitive or cut-throat. While quals is somewhat of a competition, the study groups tend to be pretty cooperative (typically the entire group either passes or fails). Post quals, it’s no more or less competitive than any other place (which is to say, it’s not really competitive at all). Also, I don’t feel that it’s hard to find advisors at all–I already have mine set up!</p>
<p>In summary, while quals is a hurdle I don’t think it’s an insurmountable one, and I think it’s one worth the benefit of doing the research you want to do.</p>