<p>“IT is a wonderful message of love to your D that you are going to be there for her, even if it is challenging.” - Maybe yes, maybe no. We have now been to 2 different freshman Parent weekends for son (he switched schools). I have to say, DH and I did it for US. We wanted to see him and learn about his school, friends, etc. </p>
<p>He probably would have been fine with us there or not there. This year he had to spend all day Sat at another campus for a computer competition. Last year he made more time for us, but I’ve hear of other students overwhelmed with homework unable to do so. </p>
<p>OP - I’m not saying whether you should go or skip the BU trip. It’s your call. Just don’t assume that your D will be crushed if you miss it. Talk it over with her.</p>
<p>There are a few features of the transport chair to check out before you leave. Be sure that all components work properly. There should be a seat belt, foot rests and a seat cushion that provides padding for you to sit on. Also be sure that the chair is your size. Your hips should sit back in the chair and your legs should be at a 90 degree angle with both feet supported comfortably. If you need professional help, a physical therapist in your area probably has a lot of experience with this sort of challenge and can provide you with some individualized attention.
Pay attention to your packing. It would be great if you could have two small carry-on bags so that you do not need to go to baggage claim. It will save you one step. It would be great if the carry-on bags could fit across the push handles in the back of the chair. Have one bag to use on the plane and one to stow. Do you have to bring your cane or crutches on the plane too? Usually the airline will take the transport chair when you get to boarding. Be sure that they can gate check it for you. At that point you may need your cane or crutches to get to your seat. Usually there is seating for those with special needs at the front of the plane so you don’t have to walk very far. Someone should be able to help you get your bag and crutches or cane stowed away for the trip. Be sure you have the items you need for flight readily accessible and not in your overhead bag.
Once your arrive in Boston, choose your activities carefully. Your may feel mentally that you want to be very active but this is a more tiring way to travel than you are used to. You and your daughter can prioritize activities for each day you are there. Parent weekends can get pretty busy! Enjoy and take some photos.</p>
<p>GREAT tips, Wind! Definitely moving into the packing phase - those tips will come in handy!</p>
<p>And yes, Colorado, I did tell her that I would be happy to reschedule, but she insists that she will do ANYTHING if I will come. She has adjusted well and is very happy - I think she is very proud to show me what she has already accomplished.</p>
<p>Getting ready to fly back home… Journey is almost over and a complete success due to suggestions of cc folks and kind people. Big picture things I have learned: getting on a bank of elevators with a scooter is like a live whack a mole game…the bell rings, you rush to the door, only to have it shut before you get there… However, any and all folks around me were always ready to help and get a laugh out of my driving skills. lesson 2: the stack of $5 bills came in very handy for kind strong men willing to help my daughter lift the scoffer in the car… The percentage that I will mess up and run into something is directly proportional to the importance of the moment to my ego. The pm who told me to bring cardboard was right…I really could have used a sign that said " student driver who doesn’t play video games…watch your toes". All that said, I am SO glad thatI came, and am very grateful for the kindness of board members and the people of Boston.</p>