<p>Hi, I've got a question.</p>
<p>Our son has ADD and some LD and has been an elite competitive swimmer, who began a hiatus in his junior years of high school to deal with some issues. I "retired" from work in when DS was a 4th grader to help him with his academics. Husband works as a writer, but is not well paid for our area (<$60,000, when the avg income here is >$130,000). His contract came to an end and he is unemployed. We did not have much in savings, until his elderly mom died last December, when we inherited a fairly large chunk of money.</p>
<p>My question is this...my husband's income has been very sporadic, at best. We decided that I would stay home and work with DS to smooth out the bumps in his life. We knew that our inheritance would be the only way we could hope to retire. Now, reading up on FAFSA I've learned that because of the inheritance our EFC will be about $20,000 more per year. It hardly seems fair. I feel like we're being punished for having one income and I feel that we are being punished because we are older parents. If our child had been more "normal", I could have continued to work. And, had we not been older parents, we would not be a position to inherit until after our child completed college. What bothers me is that it is the timing of the inheritance that decides what the EFC is. An older parent inheriting in 2005 the same amount as a younger parent inheriting in 2010 will receive less financial aid than the younger parent. So we with less will pay more.</p>
<p>Does it seem fair to you?? I believe that we could pay off our home, but with my husband's current state of unemployment we need the money now to survive and perhaps later if he is laid off again. What to do?? Your advice is welcome??</p>