<p>rant time: I really hate this, because I hate how “true college experience” is basically defined by sports, superficial school spirit, and temporary displays of school pride in your case and then you’re basically telling us that we should define it that way as well (I hate that term “true” college experience, as if everyone defines or should define it the same way). Number 1 is your fault. You chose not to attend sporting events, so who cares. I don’t feel bad for you. You should have gone elsewhere if “your” definition of the true college experience were those things, and much lesser so the academics. Most people find campus life at Emory quite vibrant (especially for a school with no D-1 sports) if they are not as obsessed with those things. They don’t find Saturdays quite as embarrassing because there are other things to engage in on and off campus. Emory is more about getting involved in different things more so than “rah rah” sort of fun. For many, being involved in Greek life or other cultural and religious organizations is more than enriching enough. So instead of “true” college experience you ought to be saying “traditional college experience as defined by the media”. You wanted that (or something that resembled your High School), and Emory doesn’t deliver it and I’m sorry about that (okay, not really), but please avoid defining “true” college experience for everyone. This isn’t religion where there is one truth. Many (if not most) people are getting a lot out of the academics and their involvement in EC’s here without all of the traditional forms of school pride, sports fervor, and such. </p>
<p>Who is anyone to tell them that they aren’t getting the true college experience (regardless of the lack of what you describe, they are getting an amazing and rigorous education that is developing their intellect and also getting to mix and mingle with bunches of smart people with diverse backgrounds and ideas. This doesn’t provide a platform for “rah rah” but does result in lots of student innovation and interesting clubs and organizations which students enjoy, whether they emphasize culture, the arts, science, whatever)? Whatever they are getting is more than good enough for them. Also, that sort of thing basically says that those at LACs which are amazing in my opinion, are not providing the true college experience. My social life was fine. Perhaps the way you define social life is a bit one-dimensional. Do not speak for everyone please. Simply say that you like more traditional social environments and leave it at that. Don’t say that the social environment is being ruined for everyone because it isn’t. Again, others on this campus have a blast without paying much attention to your preferences and definitions of a great social life. Just because you can’t have much of one beyond Greeklife and D-1 sports does not mean others can’t. Our alumni donation rates and the fact that the campaign went over its threshold indicates that others appreciate it enough. The more engaged you are, the more you enjoy Emory. The more you like to spectate and cheer, the less you will enjoy it, it’s as simple as that. If you don’t find the tons of activities (and I mean, simple things like doing CMF can be considered fun and obviously it is given the amount of people that participate. I don’t think the students involved in intramural sports are all bored. Emory isn’t at all about socializing at Greek houses and sporting events) and events on campus appealing enough, sucks for you. Perhaps you want fun to be as effortless as walking over to the stadium and Emory really just isn’t the place for that. </p>
<p>I can kind of see where your coming from, but you had to know this when you applied and/or were admitted. I actually don’t know why Emory admits (and then tries to yield) students who won’t fit or like it anyway (anything for the stats. I guess). The school is clearly trying to move into a more intellectual direction, and has always had a quirkier, less traditional social scene. I don’t see why admissions and the types of students we get don’t reflect this reality (I think it did before the new GERs, which are way softer took effect. It seems the easier GERs attract a different type of student because the new ones make us look like any other top 20, whereas the old ones would deter those who were extremely concerned about being tied down or unnecessarily challenged academically. I guess it was more like Chicago in terms of who it attracted then). Would be nice if some students would really consider fit over simply matriculating to the highest ranked school possible. Sometimes the academics don’t even match the rank anyway, so there isn’t much to lose. If you value the traditional social scene so much and cannot go without it’s as simple as not matriculating to places like Emory, WashU, JHU, Chicago (or even some Ivies where sports are D-1 but not really the focus, and academics are very intense), and finding somewhere else even if it isn’t a top 20-25 school. It’s so simple. </p>
<p>BTW: There are places with great academics and the traditional social scene you speak of, perhaps you should have transferred to one of those, because I can’t tell if you really value the academics or other opportunities this place offers all that much.</p>
<p>Also, I tutor some folks in Greeklife and they actually talk about the happenings at length, and they don’t seem ruined or depressed to me. They seem quite happy despite having a stressful course and EC load. They certainly don’t act like their institutions and social lives are in ruins. Again, perhaps because they are fully engaged…and getting their money’s worth from their Emory education and membership in the sororities (and tons of other things). Perhaps things are much more dire for those who simply want to participate in Greek parties and are not part of it. I think there are some weaknesses in the way some Greek houses are being monitored, however, I feel this uneasiness about Greek life isn’t just occurring at Emory. It has been getting a lot of bad press lately and many schools (some of similar caliber to Emory with the whole traditional scene you describe) have taken more annoying or drastic measures, so don’t act as if Emory is in isolation here.</p>