<p>Wow thanks!! Oh so much. I logged on this evening and found so many thoughtful responses. Where to start…</p>
<p>Bummer that I came off pretentious. I’ll totally cop to being a mom with a sudden lull at work this week who is also suffering from having a freshman at college so my work there is done! I was so overwhelmed with my oldest learning about colleges that I thought I would figure out where to start learning early on. I waited until my first kid took actual tests to start researching and that was very stressful. There is no knowledge here about the differences between schools at all. All guidance counselors are focused on making sure kids get the Promise Scholarship, which pays for state tuition. We are in West Virginia, so not the East. I am from Louisiana, originally, --that’s where Tulane, Vanderbilt and of course Duke comes from. I could see him in the South–my oldest now at Oberlin, no way. I have no California or midwest knowledge at all!</p>
<p>No he hasn’t taken SATs yet. I’m going by what my daughter made, and my estimate of her abilities/capabilities vs his. He does homework way faster than her, he makes excellent grades so much more easily than her, plus he is competitive and she isn’t. I just want to do right by this guy–he spontaneously started reading sentences at age 3. They put him in 6th grade math in 4th grade. I think he’s settled down since then, which I’ve heard is normal for early advanced kids. He goes to a regular public school. </p>
<p>He can absolutely choose whatever school he wants. I just want to be ready with knowledge for him as we move forward. I think mostly my twinge at him giving up Duke would be giving up the Duke alumni ED advantage. Otherwise, fine!</p>
<p>About engineering–he “upgrades” his airsoft guns all the time PLUS he’s a baker. Not a cook, but baking. I’m so not a baker–all that delicate measuring, bleh. He’s also interested in business (competition). So I’m trying to pick a place that preserves his options, should engineering lose its charm. I definitely know that many change majors.</p>
<p>I do see him as a kid OK with the Greek thing. </p>
<p>OK onto specific schools–again thanks!</p>
<p>CMU-we are only 1.5 hours away from Pittsburgh (love the city). My daughter LOVED it, was bummed to be waitlisted. I heard they prefer people from farther afield? I do know they have the serious arts, design, theater people. My opinion after several visits? NOT the love of learning LAC feel. It’s all about getting the job. Only place we visited where all the presenters wore business suits. Still, you are right–it could be the right place for him, given his interest in business!
UMich- I did not realize so many people were from out of state! I will look into this more.
UVa–my much younger sister graduated there recently and 90% of her friends were from Va. I know it is a great school–but so big! and mostly from Va.
Chicago–oops–I swore I checked that they had engineering but apparently not! facepalm
Swarthmore–probably not unless he’s only marginally interested in Engineering?
Yale/Brown–I’m hearing they are not great for engineering?
Cornell/Columbia–I’m hearing they are strong in engineering? Do they integrate with the other kids well?</p>
<p>Schools for us to research
Harvey Mudd–intruiging!
Bucknell
Lafayette
Rochester
BU
Syracuse (don’t know if I can do this as a dukie
GWU
Caltech
Ga Tech
Renassler
Case Western</p>
<p>I appreciate each and every one of you who took time to comment!!</p>