Our son has a food allergy as well and we chose between Michigan (local) GT, Rice, and Vanderbilt. We looked at USC, and a few others too. Access to high quality nearby medical care was part of the decision process as he had several anaphylactic episodes over the years. All of the dorm kitchens were accommodating, and food was labeled. Now he lives in an apartment and cooks his own food.
Consider also that at UW she could live at home in a crunch, and you could see her frequently. She wouldn’t miss family gatherings or Grandma visits. Our son comes home to do his laundry or escape from his roommate on occasion. We can take him to the grocery store or Costco. Sometimes when we go out for dinner we text him and he joins us.
In terms of student experience, Rice will be the most personal. They are extremely supportive. Classes are small and the campus is like an Oasis in downtown Houston. Classes are small. She could live on Campus for 4 years and Baylor hospital is kitty-corner to campus.
USC really is the University of Spoiled Children, but they have excellent facilities. The location is sketchy - South Central- nice on campus, a run down nearby, but hey, it’s LA so lots to do. There are lots of homeless around, particularly in nearby downtown LA. It’s an easy and cheap flight to Seattle. The engineering school is about the same as UW in quality. Apartments are pricey.
GT also suffers from bad areas near campus (not as bad as USC), but the campus itself is beautiful and the student athletic facilities are incredible - Olympic quality. It is a real crucible and a very difficult school. It’s top 5 for a reason. Support is good but not at Rice levels. Recruiting and employment support are outstanding, however. Co-op program is a central part of the engineering program and there are many large firms only a few minutes from Campus. Atlanta is booming, which helps too.
Hopkins seemed a bit disjointed to me and is really only good in Biomedical engineering, plus Baltimore isn’t the safest place. I wouldn’t consider it for engineering compared to the others without major scholarship $.
For us , GT was $25K/yr more, Rice $40K/yr and Vandy was $45K/yr more than Michigan. Not worth the difference IMO with an excellent school nearby. But that depends entirely on your finances and individual circumstances. I liked Rice the best of the schools, and for $80K more overall it’s worth considering if she needs the individual attention. How set is she on aerospace? Lots of engineers change majors. The larger schools require a lot more initiative to thrive.