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if I can make it through as strong and unbowed as you two
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can't speak for andi, cur; but, for myself, I can tell you that appearances on cc can be deceiving. Altho, access to cc and its various venues for venting surely does help. Not sure I've ever felt so stressed, not sure why, but that's how I know what you must be feeling</p>