@blossom it was tongue in cheek, nor did I mean to imply that anyone was being abusive. That said, per the forum rules:
https://auth.collegeconfidential.com/module.php/hobsonspolicies/policy.php?policy=forumrules
So when one is user asking another, “Yeah, but what would you say about this?” (and I’m paraphrasing), that just opens the debate can of worms.