<p>im still inlove with my ex, and i know that i shud hate him for dumping me. what shud i do? i think he likes another girl, and it hurts to see when he flirts with other girls. i do ignore and avoid him, but i cant help it. i want to talk to him, to be his friend, but,, i don't know. what shud i do? help!!!</p>
<p>you probably dont love him, you are just enraged in jealousy. I would try to focus on something else and hope that you can find someone more desireable. Your true "loves" should be your textbooks.</p>
<p>I'd say at this point give it some time. Don't burn any bridges, but see what happens.</p>
<p>i'm a straight-A student and textbooks are by bestfriends. but he's like the gut of my dreams.. cant get over him</p>
<p>how old are you? Is he your first boyfriend? If he dumped you for no reason, there is no point in chasing the creep. Im telling you getting bogged down in emotions post relationship is bad. A few things could happen:
1. Either you make a big mistake(give in to him exploiting you)
2. Just **** him off more which will lead to him hating you.
3. Your feelings grow but his do not and you cast away into a deep depression in which you contemplate the meaning of life. </p>
<p>It probably will not end with a magical ending regardless.</p>
<p>Honestly if you really want him back and dont give about your standards, than offer sex, he will probably accept.</p>
<p>jigga what</p>
<p>Textbooks are your best friends, so obviously you're a hard working student.</p>
<p>Don't let something like this bring you down. Just ask yourself if he's worth all this stress over, when you can be working even harder towards your goals.</p>
<p>I was in a really similar situation. I know it's hard, but you should move on. Why won't you try to at least get to know the other guys in your class too? Don't waste your time stressing over him. He dumped you?? Ouch. So why won't you go out and flirt with some new guys, huh? Cmon--it'll be fun...</p>
<p>i am depressed. all my friends are like "why look so sad?" and i am always like "i dunno". i never tell them that i feel "stress and depression" (sadness and unhappiness) because i feel sad bout my ex,(my excuse? too much homework!) i am the pickiest girl ever and i dont like anybody but him!! it seems obvious that he doesnt like me anymore, but i keep telling myself that there's still a chance; rememeber when he told you "i love you?" (yeah im a fool) i talk to guys and all but sometimes move away when he's there,, i dont want him to think that i like those guys. gosh. i've tried to move on, but it's a waste of time. does anybody know how to figure out if an ex bf still likes you?</p>
<p>he's my 1st bf and im 16. he broke up with me for A reason. a reason that hurts so bad.</p>
<p>Boyfriends... you can't put it on your resume so what's the point?</p>
<p>ok, just kidding.</p>
<p>highschooler55, I am sorry to here about your ex. Punkette writes, "So why won't you go out and flirt with some new guys, huh? Cmon--it'll be fun..." I'd advise against that because you don't need your boyfriend or any other guy to make you feel better. And even if they do make you feel better those are only like placing a band-aid on a gunshot wound. Don't make your ex, or any guy the "gut of your dreams."</p>
<p>Easier said than done, but still.</p>
<p>Whenever I have a problem or a question, I always turn to my bestfriend Google. When I was feeling said over a guy once, I googled, "how to get over a broken heart." I got a lot of "this is not really helpful" stuff, but some of the Britain sites were pretty good. Like there was even an 8-step to getting over him. And maybe you won't find anything useful for you, but I found that just reading all that advice and other people's stories made me feel better.</p>
<p>It's ok to be sad, but try to keep your mind occupied with other activities.</p>
<p>(I've always found that listening to depressing music and wallowing helps when I'm sad. Try "Last Goodbye" by Jeff Buckley.)</p>
<p>hahahah i soo do the google thing, too</p>
<p>i just wonder, (and i think it's related to this topic, therefore i do not think i need make another thread. but if not, please tell me :D)</p>
<p>do you guys believe in an opposite-sex True BEST FRIEND???</p>
<p>dreaming, yeah I do. As long as the other person is a brother/sister to you. But if you are physically attracted to your "best friend," then I wouldn't call it a true best friend.</p>
<p>$0.02</p>
<p>jealousy is a sign of love</p>
<p>dreaming, I believe that you can have an opposite-sex true best friend. My best friend last year was a guy, but then we starting going out. never mind...</p>
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