<p>MickeyD, I am guessing from your posts that your "IM" EFC comes out pretty high for CSS/Profile schools, and you were frustrated to learn at the end of the process that you qualified for little or no aid. I can see where the frustration comes in, especially if you found at the end of the process that your kid was accepted to a lot of great schools that you couldn't afford. </p>
<p>But the reason there is a needs-based financial aid system in place is to aid families with very limited resources. Those of us who have a lot of home equity may not have much else, but we have borrowing power. The financial aid calculation is based on the assumption that parents will borrow. </p>
<p>I agree that the situation could be more clear. The financial aid rep at my daughter's college was very helpful in discussing possible future scenarios with me. I can't say that my fears are completely put to rest, but I certainly do feel I got honest answers to my questions. </p>
<p>But I can assure you that the aid systems is not a waste of time and effort for those of us who qualify for significant amounts of aid. We never seem to get as much as we would like, and its never easy -- but the fact is that it has made it possible for me to send my kids to high quality private colleges. </p>
<p>The reason that we qualify is that we have a whole lot less money than the parents who don't. As a single parent who makes do on approx. $50K a year, I can only shake my head at families who have twice the income I do and are griping about the aid system. Maybe its wishful thinking on my part, but somehow I think that if I made $100K each year, I'd manage to find a way to put something away in savings -- after all, I already know I can live on $50K, so earnings beyond that look like "discretionary income" to me. I realize, of course, that the IRS takes a bigger bite and life has a way of draining money even when you feel like you are living frugally -- but the bottom line is that the LESS the family earns, the better the system works. So its one of those progressive systems that offers the biggest helping hands to the folks who need it the most.</p>
<p>We all have choices, and most of us middle-class folks live in states which offer less expensive public alternatives. If not, there actually are some out-of-state publics that are priced reasonably - for example, the SUNY system. (Several of my daughter's California classmates are going to SUNY next year - I thought that was odd until I discovered that even with out-of-state tuition, a SUNY costs less than attending a UC campus.) There are also many states that regularly waive out-of-state tuition for high stat applicants. </p>
<p>If we want to have our kids attend private colleges, then there is going to be a cost. I sent my kids to public elementary and high schools because I didn't feel I could afford private school; there is no reason that I can't make the same decision at the college level. </p>
<p>So I agree with you -- the system is frustrating, and it is unpredictable when you are searching for <em>private</em> money. The part about qualifying for federal aid is more clear - but of course that comes in the form of small subsidized loans and work study. The federal aid is really designed to meet the needs of students attending PUBLIC colleges -- why should the federal government subsidize private colleges charging inflated tuitions? Of course they do end up providing exactly those subsidies, but the point is that they the system is not geared to make it easy for middle class families to send their kids to elite privates; it is supposed to be there to enable poor families to send their kids to public colleges. The private colleges are in on the aid game because they have chosen a pricing scheme that makes college unaffordable even for the those of use who can easily manage a public education.</p>
<p>I do wish that there was more honesty- I wish they would quit making their own independent determinations of "need" and drop the fiction that they were meeting 100% need, when they don't. It would be better if they simply stuck with the FAFSA numbers & used their own financial aid forms to seek supplementary information, and simply gave awards that reflected the true percentage of need. They could quit playing word games and simply provide need-based aid packages that labeled things honestly - it is frustrating when "need" is whatever the college says it is.</p>