Family owned real estate LLC is most of our net worth, are we hopeless for aid under the CSS?

I don’t understand how everyone is resentful of a family trying to send their kid to the best school he can get into and present the most advantageous possible financial case. We’re not wealthy, I guarantee our standard of living is lower than most of you, how many of you live in 1200 sq ft? This IS the way the game is supposed to be played, not hobbling yourself at the start with naïve suppositions of how property is valued in the business world and defending the indefensible.